There's a lot of emphasis on what we should/shouldn't eat while pregnant and breastfeeding.  That's not a good diet to be on, but changing things now will only help matters.  I had the worst diet! Being sick the entire pregnancy I lived off toast with vegemite on it, and water.  Most of it didn't stay down but some must have.  I was induced early with mine as I was losing weight too rapidly and she was still born 7lb 8oz so it didn't seem to harm her.  Just do what the doctors say and it should all be ok now.

I agree with what the other members have said here , your not killing your baby all . You been to the doctors  and you know what to do now . As far  as your parter goes i think he  is totalyy wrong of him to this to you .

If he going to reacted like this now how is he going to reacted if you stay togther and if  your baby sick  .Is he going reacted the same way , telling you to get out . I be thinking of this as well .

Well i hope things work out for you  between you and your parter so don't get me wrong , but i be thinking of he did to you over this . I wish you well  and be thinking of you hun .

You are not killing your baby! I worried throughout my pregnancy about my diet as it was definately not a good diet. I do not smoke so that was not a worry, it was easy for me to give up alcohol, I don't like sodas either, but sugars and chocolate... NO CHANCE!! I ate it all... you name it chocolate, cream cakes, deserts, biscuits, sweets and easter eggs as soon as they hit the shops ...and we are not talking small portions here. 

I had very bad morning sickness for the first three months and could not hold any solids down.. except chocolate strangely enough  I had a long journey to and from work and was out of the house for at least 12 hours a day commuting too and from work, so the last thing I felt like doing was cooking a meal when I got home. I tended to eat my main meal at lunch and then graze for the rest of the day.

From about 7 months I had high sugars in my urine and was tested every two weeks for gestational diabetes although I never tested positive, the sugars were always high. I don't know how many weeks pregnant you are, but you need your husband to support you and work with you on changing your diet as it is not easy, I could not do it. I think his reaction is slightly OTT but I think it is probably down to shock. Perhaps you could take him to your next appointment so he can hear all the facts for himself?

Despite the high sugars, my son was born healthy, my only concern is  whether he will have a really sweet tooth like me, I may be hypocritical but I do not give him anything sweet except fruits and I want to keep it that way as long as possible.

Good luck and I hope the rest of the pregnancy goes smoothly.

You poor thing. I suffer from Depression and Anxiety and when I was pregnant was in a really bad relationship. I got hassled because of morning sickness (every day and night) which just made me sick from stress too. You are smart enough to know what to do about the diet, and I'm sure your love for your child will help give you strength to eat low GI foods. Depression makes it very difficult to function properly and make good every day decisions and it is important if it is ongoing to get medical help for this. If you break your arm you go to the doctor to get it fixed and the same goes for ongoing feelings of depression. Your brain may not be producing enough seratonin or something and you must remember the changes that you are going through mentally and physically are taking a toll on your body and emotions. Everyone makes mistakes - there is help out there. Hubby needs to understand the situation. I'm sure he loves you and is just freaked out and feeling helpless.  I would tell him to be the one to go if he needs space to 'digest everything'. There is no honour in kicking out your pregnant wife when she most needs your support. Talk things out with him and hopefully he will come around. It sounds like you are punishing yourself enough and don't need further condemnation from him. Good luck, your Dr. and Diabetes Australia should be able to help (check the website for yummy foods and support). They will have published info on Gestational diabetes it may be helpful for him to read. You are strong ! You are Woman! The sisterhood is with you in support. You will get through this and be a great Mum who is aware and responsible when it comes to your child's diet because of this difficult time in your life.

Don't give up!

hey omg ur the pregnant 1 go home if he has a problem let him get out!!!!!! u cant let him stress you out, i asked my fiance if this is far like from a guys side he even said no way !!!

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HI there

Im sure u r not the first person to indulge whilst pregnant, although from the sounds of it, u may have indulged a bit too much, oh well what is done is done! Now is the time to knuckle down and correct your mistakes. U know where u went wrong and will now do what u have to do. Enough said! Now, your husband...bugger staying the night at your friends. U r the pregnant one.  If he has a problem then let him be the one to sleep elsewhere. Otherwise he can comprehend this while sleeping on the couch if he doesnt want to be anywhere near u! Go back to your home..