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cheleinkal
cheleinkal | June 2007

Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months

My daughter, spoke early, she understand EVERYTHING, she's sociable and gets jokes, threw balls early used duplo stacks blocks feeds dolls pretend food, pulls funny faces....all this on time or early stuff BUT  didn't rawl until she was 1 and 2 weeks and in 11 days she is going to be 18 months old.  For MONTHS she has been cruising around furniture, using walkers, walls holding hands etc, but wont walk on her own.  She sometimes stands for quite some seconds, clapping hands or holding something in each hand before she realises nothing is holding her up and she promptly sits down.  Any suggestions????  Or am I begining to be concerned over nothing????  It hasn't bothered me until this week to be honest, but it seems like it's getting a bit beyond late now.

Thanks



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Kasandra
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | Kasandra
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months
My aunts daughter was the same.  They took her to an optomertrist and she needed glasses.  As soon as she had the glasses she was off, and in a big way.  she wasn't sure of her feet because her eyesight wasn't very good. May not be appropriate in your case but thought it may help.


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hrs2004
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | hrs2004
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months

Hey Chele. I tell you - I can guarantee that in six months time you will be running after her in the park as she has disappeared off again and you won't be able to remember that you were ever worried. Leala walked at 20 months and only because Nyle was born. She realised that she had to do something to get some attention back and just started walking. It made me sure that she had been capable for ages but just didn't have the confidence. I have a friend whose daughter is 18 months now and only crawling. She's a happy, healthy kid who just isn't interested, thanks. Both her and Aylish will walk when THEY are ready, rather than the hopeful parents. You tell me Ailish doesn't take after her stubborn mum and do things in her own time!

I know its frustrating (I was having to carry Leala and Nyle in his car seat at the same time!) and watching her sitting while all her friends were off exploring, but the benefit was we had so much more close time - I would carry her and chat to her about all the things going on, and so she improved her speach and concentration, whereas Nyle is always off doing his own thing and doesn't get that same individual attention. Make the most of that precious time that the two of you can share. She'll be off before you know it and the others are all just missing out.



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      cheleinkal
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | cheleinkal
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months

Oh Thank You Helen, .you made me laugh with the stubborn etc. line, Ummm, you may have something there.  I also hadn't considered the upside as you mentioned the extended closeness and cuddles.  You're right, I am luckier than I thought....plus her dad is incredibly lazy, maye she inherrited that as well as his cheeky grin and his curls...Yea!!!

I am also breathing a sigh of relief that layla walked later than 18 months....I googled it and they all say an 18 month cut off or they might have somethign "wrong with them" which is why I was getting a bit concerned. I feel much much much better now.

Good to see you back and mingling on Minti. xoxo



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HarrisonsMommy
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | HarrisonsMommy
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months

Sounds to me like she is getting there but in her own time.  Do you have older children?  Do they do lots of things for her?  Don't stress!  If she wasn't cruising and standing unassisted, you might worry but you know she is doing all the steps prior to walking independently, she is just taking the comfortable route...

Harrison was a late crawler and is now cruising the furniture and starting to stand on his own at 16 months.  He is slowly developing the confidence needed to accomplish this task on his own.  It is just taking him some time.  But he will get there.

Angela



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      cheleinkal
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | cheleinkal
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months
Thank You, that's reasuring.  Thus far she's an only child, and for the past several months I make her hold my hand and walk her to where ever we're going (bed etc) instead of carrying her, everyone elses kids are running around around her, I guess I am just getting impatient. LOL


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yummymummyof3
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | yummymummyof3
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months

No I wouldn't worry, my first was very advanced with speaking etc as well and he did not walk until I think it was 17 -18 months it may have been later, if she wasn't cruising then I would be worried, I assume you do this but we used to sit on the floor and get him to walk to and from me and hubby each time we would get a little further away, don't know if it helped but he had fun trying x



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      cheleinkal
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | cheleinkal
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months
Phew, great to hear.  Thanks for taking the time to reasure me & for the advice.  We do do the encouraging thing a little bit, but probably not as often as we could, she has a tendancy to know what we're are doing and sits down and crawls to each of us. LOL  I can't wait to be able to tale her to the park where she can run around instead of just sitting in the sand, walk along the beach with me collecting shells carrying her own bucket, helping me weed the garden etc.......... I think I may have a romantic version of my daughters walking future in mind. LOL


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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | llmunchkin
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months
There's no rush, she sounds strong enough, obviously she is just happy and contented with her current situation.  Once she does start walking, there will be no looking back, and you will have times when you wish she wasn't.  Enjoy her the way she is for now, and I am sure she will walk when you least expect it, so be ready!


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      cheleinkal
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | cheleinkal
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months
She kind of crawled like that....no warning just took off like she'd been doing it forever, so I don't doubt that you are right and she will just take off.  She does still have a rather stiff knee'd walk, will that be hindering her do you think?  Thanks for the advice, everyone has been very helpful in restoring my confidence.


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           llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | llmunchkin
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months
Well, if she is keeping her knees stiff, that may just show that she lacks confidence.  Do some little excercises with her when she is leaning against the couch.  You know, squatting and kneeling so that she gets used to the movement and realises that she can bend them and still stand up. 

I have Jaydees first steps in a photo, as I wanted a photo of him sitting on his new couch from NannyFaye in his new jumper from NanaKate.  I put my cereal on the floor and as I was reaching out for the camera, he jumped up and started walking to grab my cereal... I guess the incentive got him moving.

Stephen and Andrew (Dad & Uncle), are particularly strong, fit, well coordinated guys, neither of them walked before 18months, they have certainly made up for it since then.


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toosh
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | toosh
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months
I know a few children that haven't walked unassisted until 18 months or older so I wouldn't worry. She is obviously capable just not ready herself yet - it will happen!


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      cheleinkal
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | cheleinkal
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months
here's hoping...LOL.  You have restored my faith and confidence, thank you very much.


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MummaBear
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | MummaBear
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months
If she can stand on her own and walk holding things, I would guess that she is capable but just doesn't know it yet.  She's doing everything she needs to do in order to walk.  I bet she just does it one day by accident then realises she can do it, there will be no stopping her then!


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      cheleinkal
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | cheleinkal
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months
I think you're right, the couple of times I have thought she might start she has had things in her hands or has been clapping and has forgotten she's not holding on to anything stable.  Any clue as to how to make her more confident with it?  I thought her hanging out with new little friends who all walk would encourage her, but it doesn't seem to have done.  Also I have a sneeking suspicion she thinks she is a dog LOL...she and our Lasa Apso Shitzu cross are best friends and chase each other (crawling for her) all over the house and patio....my poor confused puppy person. LOL


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rockclimbr4400
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | rockclimbr4400
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months
I wouldn't be worried, some babies are happy just crawling. The fact that she is holding on to things and walking means she is on her way. I have a neice who sounds just like yours. Didn't crawl until she was 1 year old, is now 14 months, just holds on to things to walk, and stands on her own without holding stuff then sits down. I think you have nothing to worry about, she is showing the SIGNS of walking. If I were you I would talk to my doctor or a nurse that works for your doctor. As long as she is hitting all the othe rmilestones on time (sounds like she is and is a little advanced with everything else) I wouldn't worry.


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      cheleinkal
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | cheleinkal
Re: Not walking unassisted yet 17.5 months
Thanks for that, glad to hear we are not alone...just seems that way, every kid here seems to be born walking LOL.  We can't get a doctor here unfortunately.  The population has grown quicker than the amenities can cope with and the clinics are not taking any new patients at all..............i MIGHT SEE IF i CAN GET A HEALTH CARE NURSE CHECK UP, i THINK SHE'LL BE DUE AT 18 MONTHS ANYWAY.  tHANKS AGAIN FOR GREAT ADVICE. oops, didn't realise I'd hit caps lock..no yelling intended LOL


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