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AZMom | June 2007

Help!! - Games at bedtime!

My son James (who was 1 yesterday) has always been a wonderful sleeper, as soon as he is put in his crib at night or for a nap he goes straight to sleep. However, for the last 4 or 5 days he has realised he can stand up and walk around his crib holding onto the sides. During the day this is not too bad as he is just covered loosely with blankets, at night time he is in a sleepbag and this is when I am more concerned as I worry that he may stumble in the dark especially being in a sleep bag.

At first I would go to James' room, pick him up, cuddle him and lay him back down again saying it's time for sleep. I quickly realised that each time he got up he was being rewarded for it and it became a game to him. My husband and I decided to remove all communication with him when he refuses to sleep, we simply lay him down, no eye contact and no talking to him. For one day it stopped and he was back to his old sleeping patterns, however, it has started again. I am reluctant to remove the sleepbag as he kicks the covers off and it is so hot here we need the cooler on at all times.

Has anyone else experienced this? If so I would be grateful for any help or ideas.



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AZMom
June 2007 | AZMom
Re: Help!! - Games at bedtime!
Thanks for all your advice, I have taken to leaving him now .. just peeping through the door to make sure he is ok and i have found he goes from standing to sitting then will just flop over and go to sleep.


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Aidansmom07
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | Aidansmom07
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My son was a deadly sleeper for the longest time...once asleep he would be great and sleep through and all that but getting him to sleep was always a problem.  I would just put him in bed and leave him there (with the baby monitor on of course) until he fell asleep.  Rather than going in a ton of times to lay him down...he's go when he was ready.  Our house too is quite cool so once asleep then I would go in and cover him up.
Do what you think is best, remember you are the mom and you know your child better than everyone.  I do know that my son changed his sleep habits several times in his 2 years, and tried the same sort of games so best of luck to you!


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cheleinkal
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | cheleinkal
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This is typical Ï've learned to stand up"behaviour.  How many things could he possibly fall on and hurt himself inside his cot???  I wouldn't stress about it if I was you.  Sounds as though the way you have done it with putting him down and leaving with limited communication has worked thus far, it usually takes between 4-7 days to change a habbit in a baby, and so far so good, it's worked once, it'll work again, it will take a week of persistance.  My daughter is found asleep on top of books under dolls upside down in the cot etc.  she roams all the time, I just right her before I go to bed & cover her up.....it's what they do, don't stress, let him roam even, if he's not crying badly, he's just exploring, he may not be quite tired enough, have you tried pushing bed time back 30 minutes until he's a bit more sleepy?  You're doing the right thing I think.  Keep up the good work, as long as the cot is structually sound and he has no dangerous objects in his cot, I'm sure he'll come to no harm.  (My daughter also has sleep bags...no worries there either)


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      AZMom
June 2007 | AZMom
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I guess I am a paranoid mother  i see dangers in everything for him, he is at the perfect height that if he lets go of the cot whilst standing holding onto one side he would crack his head on the opposite side. As the cot is made from solid oak it would hurt a bit I am sure. Thanks for your advice.


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toosh
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | toosh
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Just keep doing what you are doing - no eye contact & keep laying him back down. Most kids will do something like this at around this age - I know my oldest did and I will be expecting number 2 to do it later this year! Persistance is the key to things like this, unfortunately it can take a while and can get quite frustrating! I hope he settles back in to his normal pattern for you soon!


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