Re: Waking at night
I have had similar problems with my son Harrison. He hasn't been he best sleeper, I did lots of over night feeds until I just couldn't take waking up that many times! Right now you may find that it takes only 1 feed but sooner or later it is likely that every time he wakes, he will need some assistance to get back to sleep.
You are dealing with several different issues. You shouldn't pick him up when he wakes and you go in to settle him (I sometimes do too but can backfire by not wanting to get back in bed), bringing him in bed with you (if you are comfortable with him sleeping with you, your business, but if this is another habit you don't want to form you should stop that as well), and breastfeeding (you are giving him a sleep association).
I don't know how you feel about controlled comforting/crying but it worked wonders for us. You just need to retrain your son about bedtime and routines. Harrison still needs occasional settling in the middle of the night but for the most part, we don't have to do CC. Just pat on the back and give him the pacifier and he settles back to sleep. Sometimes more than that, and we deal with it when that happens. I tend to take week time duties since my hubby works M-F and he doesn weekend duties, if we need to.
Good luck to you. I know exactly what you are dealing with!
Angela
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