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jimannakateen | June 2007

cartoons!

Annaliese has just turned 3 and she hasnt been a child for cartoons. But in the last 4 weeks i cant get her away from it. I want to go out and she kicks and screams bec she doesnt want to leave the cartoons. She is up at 7am  and puts cartoons on and she is there until 6pm most  nights, still watching them. Ive have tried painting with her doing activities and she wont have a bare of it. One thing that has come out of this is her speach has improved by at least 70%. I still dont think it healthy to watch cartoons for that long. What do i do, how do i get her to do other things that she did  enjoy once????



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jd2
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | jd2
Re: cartoons!

Hello, my sister had the same problem she had two living rooms so from the main she removed the tv but used tapes like story and nursery rhymes they get on your nerves after a while..lol. And at the weekends when the children were allowed to stop up later she would have a family movie night. The tapes are a great way fror developing speech and you can interact with your child at the same time as you can sing along while painting, drawing, playing, dress-up etc. And when your rushed off your feet with no time to persuade her to co-operate you can take the rhymes with you in the car if needs be..lol you'll be singing twinckle twinckle in your sleep!!

Jo xx



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Ngairi
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | Ngairi
Re: cartoons!

What I did at that age was start teaching them about clocks. I would 4 pics of clocks. One said 7.00 and the other said 9.00, these had a big "MORNING" above them. Then there were another 2 that had 2.00 and 4.00. These had a big "AFTERNOON" above them. I explained to them that these were the only times the TV could go on. They had to then look at the clock in the lounge and if it said the same, they could have it on.

Otherwise switch it off and go outside.

Leisa



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Libby24
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | Libby24
Re: cartoons!
get her to watch things like little einstiens and Dora as they are very educational. i let my kids watch after school and a bit during the day but try to limit it after 3 hours as they need sunshine.

if you have a newer mobile phone you could try and make your own video's with her as the main person. we have lots of fun.


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      jimannakateen
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | jimannakateen
Re: cartoons!
We have foxtel IQ and she has recorded dora about 20 tmes and  she wants to watch them over and over. Thats a good idea about the phone might try that thanx tee


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mewannaboy
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | mewannaboy
Re: cartoons!

Id be unplugging the tv and forcing her to really pick another activity considering nothing else is on...not literally force her.

Maybe you could get some educational dvds or videos with a cartoon style theme,while she is watching playschool or elmo or something she is learning too.Maybe you get try activities that are based on the character from her fav cartoons ...like buy elmo blocks or dora the explorer playdough,books too.

Hope this has helped'



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llmunchkin
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | llmunchkin
Re: cartoons!
Work out which ones she enjoys the most, and work out which ones are actually more beneficial to her vocabulary and age appropriate.  Let her watch these as a reward for doing all the other activities that she should also be doing at those times of the day.  You are the mum, she is the child, of course she creates a huge fuss when you try to stop her from watching these shows - it is working well for her. 

You need to establish the rules and be her parent, not her friend.  This is just one of many times you will have to do it - in the end, it will make life more pleasant for you both.


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Zylona
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | Zylona
Re: cartoons!
what i did with my son was unplug the tv and when he went to turn it on i told him it was broken


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      MWattage
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | MWattage
Re: cartoons!
There's no time like the present to start teaching your kids that there is a time for everything, and there can be too much of a good thing.  She might not like it, but you have to make her have outside time, or painting time, or reading time, or cooking together time (a personal favorite in our house).  My oldest son pitched a fit when I limited his tv, and still pitches a fit when I limit his computer time, but I just tell him such is life!  I know it's hard, but you must be strong!  You are a parent, after all, and she is depending on you.  Plus, if I've learned anything with my kids it's that they'll complain and complain about something that makes them unhappy at first, but give it a little time and they forget about it entirely and move on to something else pretty quickly.


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      jimannakateen
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | jimannakateen
Re: cartoons!

Ill try that one she understands when things are broken lol.

Tee



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           crystalmoon
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | crystalmoon
Re: cartoons!
Good one I was going to say something along the the lines of the TV being broken etc......I think trying to reason with 2-3 year olds is like finding a needle in a haystack LOL so a simple "oh dear,the TV is broken" may save a lot of  grey hairs and upset ......Hugs Crystal xx


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                madchanny
5.00 (Excellent) | June 2007 | madchanny
Re: cartoons!
or you could go outside and turn the main power off.... and just call it a blackout, and go outside for a while and play... do your washing before the 'blackout' and go outside with her while you hang it out,  then sneakily turn the power back on,...
i mean you cant go on forever with a ''broken'' tv yeah :)
you can get her to listen while all the power is off... chat with her about other fun things you can do together, like games and painting? even helping you out with 'big peoples' chores like dishes and sweeping :)
i heard that parents are now putting timers on their tv plugs which is a good idea too...
you could explain to her that the tv is broken and only stays on for 'X' ammount of time??
xx good luck


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