Re: 4.30am &ready for the day?
I would be calling Tweedle or the QEC, they are the experts, they say that you shouldn't get your child up until 6am, and from my experience it only takes about 36 hours to retrain them.
Your daughter has to decide how much she needs the change, if she needs it as much as it sounds like she does then I would persevere with whatever recommendations I am given, which I would imagine is control crying and resettling.
Maybe suggest she try on a weekend when they can tag team it. Also consider something my friend, a mothercraft nurse, says "sleep breeds, sleep" in other words kids who have good day time sleeps often have good night time sleeps. This friend worked at the QEC and her kids are all great sleeper.
Take care, it is a really difficult time for everyone, I think parenting children under two is the hardest time in life, but it gets easier and at the end we all wonder where the time went:)
Jodi
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