i have come across this too with my 14 year old and at first i did the same thing, made her get off it and actually banned her for a good 2 months, since letting her back on ive seen some bad language and suggestive name titles and made her tell the other person its not appropriate and that she will be barred if they keep it up, some it works with others dont care.

at the end of the day i guess you have to remember that they probably talk like that all day at school and words may be offensive but as long as they are being respectful to you and other adults ie not saying them in front of or at you, theres not much you can do about it.

good luck with this one, its such a sign of the times that as parents we have to try and figure out how to deal with computer bad language!!! this is something our folks didnt have to deal with and i guess by the time they are parents they will have a whole new issue with their kids!

Hi I think you should block this little foul mouth because I agree with Libbys you can't punish your daughter for his dusting langue.

That's sort of langue is terrible at the best of times but coming from a 13 year old is appalling & your daughter doesnt need to be subject to that.

So my advise to you is block that little punk but still let your daughter use the msn to talk to her other friends & hopefully she won't have to endure anymore of that dusting langue.

Hi, that sounds very concerning. However, I don't think you should punish your daughter for someone else's foul language. Perhaps you could ask her to ask him not to use those words, and if it doesn't stop then block him.

This will also show her that you trust her to do the right thing, and that your concerns are about others. Hope all goes well!