behavoural problems
Hey, i have two beautiful gals bexleiy-rose 4 and summer-kiarah 2. I am a single parent and am having some very difficult beharvourial problems with both of them and was wondering if anyone else has had the same problems or can offer advice!Both gals dont see there dads as they both were really voilent towards me, so its best they dont have anything to do with them. Bexleiy-rose witnessed heaps of this voillence and i'm thinking it may be relating to her behavour at the moment...both the gals and me have not been in this voilent environment for 2 years now which is good, but think it may be a factor in the way shes behavouing... Bexleiy-rose, is currently going to speech therapy, and has a big problem with talking, she cant interact with kids cause they dont understand her and be mean to her...she wont talk, is very withdrawn at skool and when asked questions justs looks at u like yer what...i've tryed everything., read to the both everynight....shes a very affectionate child too which is contstantly hugging and kissing people, at home she can be quite voilent toward her sister, constant pushing bitting myself and sister, hair pulling, swearing, and throwing and trashing house hold items. I'm at my wit ends , tryed pretty much everything...have her on waiting list for child phscoligist and getting her hearing tested next week...
Summer-kiarah from 9am in the morning to 7pm at night constantly screams for no reason, there wont be anything wrong with her, shed be feed , changed, have sleep, and she still screams loudly constantly...i've tryed saying to her quiet please summer, suprisingly i'm very patient with both of them which is good in a way...but its getting realli hard now...she also bites, pulls hair and throws tantrums constantly. she too is having speech therapy cause she doesnt say a single word its just scream..
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