as they wont want to loose their son it will have to be him to tell them to back off yet again and also in future i wouldnt tell thm all the things that are going on in your life tell hubby this also .. in future if you buy a car again etc,, keep it to yourself and just go get the one you both want ,, the less they know the less they can voice what they want you both to do or get .. take time and also be busy ion some weekends so you wont have to go over there etc,, buy your child whatever you want and just dont tell them .. mine has also tryed several time i grab my partner and tackfully let him know that if he dosent make them stop i will and he nows lets them know ,, even know they get the poos with him at first they come arround fast as they dont want to loose him ,, he needs to sort them out and this all can be done by him in a possitive mannor ,,but he needs to be real strong about this and stick to it  write the things down and go though it with your partner what needs to be stopped asap ,,

i know what this is like all the best xxx

It's a horrible situation to be in, and sometimes they just don't realise how intrusive they are being.

I'd sit down with your husband and put all your cards on the table. Tell him how they make you feel and what impact it is having on your family unit. Just tell him straight, some guys just don't comprehend subtlty (no offence). Tell him what you foresee as your options and why.

If that doesn't work...then chuck a mega wobbly in front them and tell them to ping off!!! If nothing else, you'll probably feel relieved at getting it off your chest!!!

Good Luck

Hi , I think you done the right thing here , its good to be closes to our parents but not to the extented that they have gone  to far    in running your lifes .The both of you are adults and should be able to choice whats best for  and your family .

I still talk to your parter and his parent and really tell them how your feeling about how over wheleming it is for you  and that you and your parter want to made choices in life  and to live as feel  is right for you both .

I hope things work out for you  all the best to you