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Step daughter returns Spoilt
I have a 6 year old step daughter who calls me dad and a son of 2. i have been with my partner for 4 years. As a step dad I encounter serious problems with the biological fathers parents.
My step daughter has every weekend since she was little gone to there house to see her grandparents. The father has nothing to do with her has shirked all responsibilities and pays no maintenance at all.
The problem is that when she is with my partner and I she is fine but every weekend she comes back whiney sulky spoilt brat. She says hurtful things to me like my other daddy is better than you. which i ignore but it all came to a head on her birthday the other day when the grandparents came to our house to give her presents and wish happy birthday.
My stepdaughter changed immediately, suddenly rude shouting and screaming and acting very badly. I am usually the one that is responsible for the discipline and am always supported by my partner.
I have sat down with my step daughter and explained that it is wrong to behave that way and she understnds and agrees with, but as soon as they show up to collect or drop her off i note her behaviour terrible.
I have thought about stopping her from going to the grandparents if they don't start disciplining her properly but that would only hurt my step daughter as she does love them very much.
I don't want a confrontation with them either as my step daughter would turned against me! our relationship is very good at the moment but i am worried that she is growing into a horrible person. Please help!!
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Rash that turns white
surprising, but the first time Rishan got this it was all over his face - cheeks, around lips, ears, neck. The doc said it was due to drooling, milk spill etc., somehow i was given to use oilatum after bath, no progress. I later visited another doc, she said he has sensitive skin and that i must take good care of his skin. I stopped using J&J baby products, bought pears as suggested by her. Applied liquid paraffin. Nothing worked. I had the kamillosan ointment and applied it and thought the rash like thing had healed. This red patch would turn white after about three to four days. He kept kept getting it every once in a while now and then. Kamillosan i thought was the only remedy. I later changed his creams and powders to mothercare range. Got him a preventive nappy rash cream from Kamillosan.
on 18th of july he developed a red rash like thing on his scrotum. I thought it could be because of the diaper and kept him diaper free for almost a week. It took him a week after which the rash turned white. The doctor called it fungal infection and gave me miconazole. No progress. Now after almost 2 months the white patch is as it is. I feel it is similar to the one he gets on his cheeks and find no remedy.
Is there anyone who has faced a similar problem, since I am unable to get a convincing answer ?
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Not even close to a parenting question
I'm sorry, this is not a parenting qu... But am in desperate need of advice... My partner and i had a bit (BIG) of a run in a couple of weeks ago, it was the best thing that could have happened to us. It has helped us emensly, unbelivably (just to go off track a little, it was a bit of a shock to both of us as we never argue, but occasionally diasagree- as we all do) ... for a long time i have known that we are perfect for each other, get along very well and have everything that a relationship needs to work...
We have been talking about marriage but i think that i want to propose to him... Im totally terrified and i'm looking for any advice that people can give me on how to do this, (maybe if any other ladies have ever done it)... as i said, we did have a bit of a run in not long ago, but for both of us, it has just made us realise how lucky we are to hav each other and just how perfect that things are
Thanks in advance to any advice towards my crazy qu.
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