I know alot of people on here have said this ..... But u need to get out now... find a support group in your area and see if any friends or family can put you up while you get your life back on track.

Organise it behind his back it might take a while to find a place to live.... There may even be a domstic Violence shelter somewhere near you so you can stay there for a bit. Also go and see a counsellor for your emotional state..... you can do it you have taken the 1st step by reaching out. Next step is finding a way out of the relationship.

hi i was in your boat last year and trust me you dont wont to end up with someone like that.... with or without weed he shouldnt hit you and trust me the more you stay with him the worst it will get i was with my parntner for 6 years and im only 23 and he was the same everytime he didnt have weed he would hit me but i was a dick and i stayed with him and now i have kids to him but we broke up last year as he hit one of my children due to no weed so please get out now its not worth it you shouldnt put your life at rick with someone taht does things like that  trust me oh and also if you think you will never find anyone else well trust me you well and it will be for the better

Get out of the relationship NOW. Don't walk but RUN.

The phone numbers people have posted are all good. As we have no idea where you are from there may also be a Woman's Health Centre , Benevolent Centre in your area that can help you.

Good Luck

what hell you doing with him??????????????????

i have been in  bad relation ship before i meet hubby and i can tell you from experience its not worth the risk .

with mine i got my skull cracked ,stabbed ,broken nose 2 times ,almost blinded ,brusined more times than i can think and almost burnt alive .

he used to drink and sell my stuff  and even had me lose my friendship with my father by threatening to kill me if i did not take money ,so i ended up with a bad police record cause i took myself to the police but i lst my dad.havent seen him in 11 years and he has never meet his garndkids .

so girl get the hell out while you can .

there is plenty of fish in the sea and you dont need a man to make you happy in life anyway

get out  thre is no excuses ,no if or butt ,nothing he says or not enough sorrys will get your self respect back or what you may lose in life

i have to agree with the other comment here ,  its sad that you in  this mess   but while you still have the stength to leave i would .Like the others have said theres support out there for you and some memeber have offer to help you as well .

If you stay theres really no life there for you  its just get worst as the days goes  by , so please get help and leave and made a better life for  yourself.As your still young  and you can find some one thats cares for you  and repects you . I hope thing work out for you all the best to you as  it must be hard at the moment .

You are young and on the brink of your life. There is no reason why you cannot walk away and make a life that you can be happy with and that can help you fulfill your potential as a person. There is only one thing in your way and that is you. You can keep looking for excuses why you cannot walk away, or you can spend your energy on making a better life for yourself. The choice is entirely up to you. The tine to make that choice is NOW. I am not saying it is going to be easy, because it will be the hardest thing you will do, but only you can do it. Nobody else can help you. you can ask for support from others along the way - but you have todo it. So, what are you going to do?

Are you going to start your new life or keep looking for excuses why you can't?

I can help you matey, but you'll need to sign up to minti if you haven't already and minti mail me to let me know who I'm talking to. Anything and everything you have to say will be kept totally confidential, and I have no issues with reading long stories.

There's nothing much anyone can do for you unless you are willing to do it for yourself, but the support, advice, and information is all here if you want it. If you're lucky and in the right city/town etc; I may even be able to get you some practical help as well.

I hope to hear from you soon.

Cheers, DA

I have been there hunni and i know its not a nice thing. If you are saying you cant cope anymore than you a ready to leave and be strong. You are young and  have your whole life ahead of you but you need to do this smartly and carefully. You need to leave and leave un harmed. Its hard to explain what to do bec we dont know the full background on him and how agressive he is. There alot of people there that can help you but its hard that you are anon. We wont jugde you hunni please let us help.

Hugs Tee

ok there is not really much u can be advised to do other to leave him your 22 and u have a whole life ahead of u i cant say my fella has never hit me cos that would be aa lye but he did it again he would be gone maybe u should go through the abuse catorgory in the advice section he is making u steal and he is taking your stuff and seelling it

get out while u still can !!!!!!!

luv emz xx

click this link and read this advise it will help....

http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/7063/Domestic-Violence-Why-You-Must-Get-Out-While-You-Still-Can-edited-and-updated/

hi,

I agree with the other comment, you need to get out now why you still can...  There is alot of great advice on abuse that may help you. It is NOT right what he is doing, I'm sorry if i offend, but he has no respect for you. If he did he wouldn't treat you this way. The only thing i can suggest is leave now and never look back.