i'm 21 and my fiancé is 25. lately he has been giving me hints that he wants a child, like rubbing on my belly. bringing sweet snacks and telling me i can't do certain things like run or play sports etc..
i want him to be happy but i don't think i'm ready for the responsabilities that come with a child.
I think you need to sit him down when the time suits you both and tell him exactly how you feel. Having a baby is a HUGE responsibility and if you are not ready then don't even go there. If he loves you which he does he will wait and be patient until you are both at the stage in your life when you are both ready. Why is he telling you, you can't play sport etc if you are not even pregnant. He is acting as if he knows something you don't!!!!!!
You need to discuss this, so you both know where you are. If you are not ready, please say so, but do it in a nice way. He may even not mean that he wants to start a family. Talk to him! Good luck.
first of all idmake sure he isnt just playing maybe he is ready sooner i was ready long before my fiancee we had a good long chat got all our finances in order then we made sure we did al the things we wanted to do before kids came along were 6 yrs into the relationship now and all is well baby no2 on the way. Maybe he is wanting to start a family and dont we all at some point but aslong as he knows its hapening just when your both ready im sure it will be fine.
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