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Re: Terrible Tantrums
Oh boy, the million dollar question! he is right on track, much like my little girl, he is starting young. It's just something that you are going to have to play around with to see what works best for you. With my girl I use a combo of things. First I count to 3, if she does not listen then a spanking and then I leave the room. If she follows me then I tell her that I will not talk to her until she calms down and talks to me nice. Though this is to tough when they are that young. When she was like that I would tell her no, and if she did a tantrum, like you I just ignored, but I still told her the same, I would talk to her with she stopped the screaming. Many times she has coughed, vomited and such. Because they get so worked up over it. But just keep consitant, with however you decide to handle it, and follow the same steps everytime, it won't take long for him to get the idea and he will change his actions. And remember, the more you tell him to stop or give him any attention, the more he will do it. So praise the positive more and try to ignore the bad, or distract so he see that the tantrums won't get what he wants...Good luck!
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Re: Terrible Tantrums
My son started tantrums at about 11 months. I remember it clearly. He used to push a car back and forth in the kitchen and when he bumped into something and couldn't push anymore, he got frustrated and cried. At the time, I always talked him through it (even if he didn't understand me). I told him that there was no need to cry and that all he needed to do was push the car in a different direction, and while saying this, I took away the obstacle. Talking through it calmly allowed me to show him that he could work through the same situation without getting too frustrated. Doing things this way really paved the way for us as he got older and the real tantrums began.
Also, I didn't always run to him whenever he got frustrated. I watched him to allow him a bit of time to figure things out for himself, and then I stepped in to help.
My suggestion is, to try and do the same thing. When your baby cries because something wasn't going his way, let him work it out first and fight the urge to run to him immediately. Step in only before the point of frustration. Approach him cheerfully to show him that this is normal and that you would help him get through it.
When you help him, try to show him what you're doing and if you can manipulate his hands to show him the movements, that's even better. Your pay off would be 18 months from now when instead of immediately getting frustrated because he couldn't do anything, he would try and work things out for himself before he calls for help.
Good luck!
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