To start with I think it would be a good idea to take your daughter to see your GP, as soon as possible.

The doctor can determine whether there is anything that suggests an underlying physical problem contributing to your Daughter problem, whether she has a simple ear infection can make a young child complain like this, or whether his whining might be a response to psychological stress of some kind.

If the cause of the whining can be established then hopefully the doctor can help you find ways of solving the problem, and if your daughter needs to be referred on to a hospital paediatrician or a specialist with experience of dealing with behavioural problems, the doctor will be able to arrange this for you.

Is she walking yet?

The reason I ask this is because all 3 of my kids got incredibly grumpy right before they started both crawling and walking. The frustration got the better of them and they just got really peed off at me because they couldnt walk. Like it was my fault! Maybe your little girl is doing the same thing?

It sounds like you are being a really great mom, not spoiling her!  I agree with Arna.  My son was really teething at that age and having a growth spurt too.  It's tough being a baby.  I think I would just give her lots of love and comfort.  As for being a happy baby, you can only give her what she needs.  She won't be grumpy forever.  lol

Our daughter will be one in May too! lol.  And you know what?  I thought you must have been hiding in my roof because you have just described the way she is right now. 

It could be teething or just an insecurity phase.  It will pass, come back, go away etc etc etc.

It is ok to let her cry in her bed if you need a break.  A cuppa while collecting the mail maybe!

May I ask what "winji" means?

Most babies at this age, begin to show "tantrums". They get highly frustrated when something doesn't go their way. This is normal because they have just learned they can do things themselves, but yet don't know how to manipulate things correctly. Their frustration is expressed in the only way they know how.

do u take her to play group? if not find one and go. u might find that she just needs other kid stimulation