My daughter will be turning one in may, Im wondering if there is any one out there that can help me at all in the past couple of months she has become very winji and I mean very but it is getting worse she can never just wake up and be happy people are saying I have spoiled her. We spend a lot of time together I read to her I play with her I take her for walks to the park.............................................................How can I fix this after a while it becomes to much for me please help..................???????????????????.
To start with I think it would be a good idea to take your daughter to see your GP, as soon as possible.
The doctor can determine whether there is anything that suggests an underlying physical problem contributing to your Daughter problem, whether she has a simple ear infection can make a young child complain like this, or whether his whining might be a response to psychological stress of some kind.
If the cause of the whining can be established then hopefully the doctor can help you find ways of solving the problem, and if your daughter needs to be referred on to a hospital paediatrician or a specialist with experience of dealing with behavioural problems, the doctor will be able to arrange this for you.
The reason I ask this is because all 3 of my kids got incredibly grumpy right before they started both crawling and walking. The frustration got the better of them and they just got really peed off at me because they couldnt walk. Like it was my fault! Maybe your little girl is doing the same thing?
It sounds like you are being a really great mom, not spoiling her! I agree with Arna. My son was really teething at that age and having a growth spurt too. It's tough being a baby. I think I would just give her lots of love and comfort. As for being a happy baby, you can only give her what she needs. She won't be grumpy forever. lol
Thanks for the comment lets hope its not for ever lol its hard work being a mum you forget how hard it is as my 16y is a handful but in a different way'
Our daughter will be one in May too! lol. And you know what? I thought you must have been hiding in my roof because you have just described the way she is right now.
It could be teething or just an insecurity phase. It will pass, come back, go away etc etc etc.
It is ok to let her cry in her bed if you need a break. A cuppa while collecting the mail maybe!
Thanks for the comment I have tried the cry bit but I cant handle her crying it upsets me to much as she gets upset realy bad. bUT MIGHT GIVE IT ANOTHER GO SEE WHAT HAPPENS LOL
Most babies at this age, begin to show "tantrums". They get highly frustrated when something doesn't go their way. This is normal because they have just learned they can do things themselves, but yet don't know how to manipulate things correctly. Their frustration is expressed in the only way they know how.
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