I wouldn't worry  about the porn,men will be  men.As for the comment,''It's only till your body gets better''...What the hell?I wouldn't put up with  that!Talk to him and tell him how  much it hurt  you.Tell him to have a baby and a perfect body 3 months later.

well this is a hard one cause your hubby's comment could mean that your vagina is too loose still. it does take a while to tighten back up and some men dont get off well because of this. all i can suggest is put effort into you and get your muscles back. not for him but for you as you need them tight again for the pelvic floor muscle. you dont want a pro lapse.

dont stress about the Porn. I made a deal with my hubby that he dont look up porn by himself. he waits till i am there and he can go for his life. it works for us. and i always make comments like, oh I am so much better than that chick. we laugh about it and have fun and always have good sex after wards.

one Q for ya, do you climax? i found it very hard for the first year after my kids were borna nd if ur hubby is like mine he found that very disapointing and it made him feel like less of a man. Just a thought....

feel free to minti mail me if you want someone to chat about it with.

Hugs and good luck

Liz

I personally wouldn't worry so much about the porn.  Men will always and have always lusted after other women and it doesn't mean their cheating.  You are not ever going to stop that and all you will do with ultimatums is cause resentment and further problems.

I would however be concerned with 'it was only until my body was better,'  what does he exactly mean by that?  I think that needs to be discussed more than the porn.  But watching porn is not an indicator of infidilitie

When he stops watching porn and isn't coming after you, then be worried.

look i somewhat understand what you mean with the porn my partner has a very bad habbit with it also but what i have done is blocked them kind of sites from him with a password that he doesnt know that is an idea for you also

but what is this about "until your body is better" i have found that weather or not what might be going on with your body that i doesnt really matter what he thinks as long as you are happy

i have tried giving my man an alternatim of getting rid of the porn or i go but that doesnt work so just hang in there but try to keep what he does to a minimum

hiya, i have been in almost the same situation, to me its cheating., he is lusting over other women. please feel free to mintimail me, its nice to have someone to talk to, and your identity will be kept secret. Its disgusting, your way far more than that!