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nabutters | May 2008

how old is too old to breastfeed??

Hey,im just wondering if there is many other mum's out there still breast feeding their little ones at 15 mths old??? I am still feeding her in the morning and right before bed time. I went to the Dr this morning and had him make a comment that my daughter was getting a little too old to be feeding.Asked who i was doing it for,myself or her?? I know its up to me to decide on when to finish feeding but she enjoys this time with me as i do with her.I would love to hear of other mothers still feeding at an older age..i was planing to finish feeding in a few mths...thanks



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PHOENIX
May 2008 | PHOENIX
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

Can I add this dr to the list of Health Professionals I want to slap up the side of the face for undermining breastfeeding rates GRRRRR!!!

As others have said WHO says AT LEAST 2 yrs and then to continue as long as mum and bub want. The world average is 4.5yrs!!!!

I fed my first for 23mths and my second is nearly 3 and still going. He maybe feeds once every day or so.

You do what you feel is best for the both of you. You can't force a baby or toddler to BF so pooey to anyone who gives you grief!!!

And good on you for BF for over 12mths!!!



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Arna
May 2008 | Arna
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

And what century was your doctor born in?  Sheesh, I would have thought doctors would be supporting mothers like yourself in this area.  You make the choice that is right for you and don't worry about what anyone says.  It is a special bonding time just for you and your baby and if you are comfortable with it, what does it matter what anyone else thinks.  Obviously, if she were 15 years old, I would be a little concerned, but she isn't even 2 yet!



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fifey
May 2008 | fifey
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

My little one is 16 mth old and i am still breast feeding her.  Do whatever is comfortable for you and your baby.

Good luck.



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KathrynR1402
May 2008 | KathrynR1402
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

As KSeers says, the WHO recommends 2 years because of the health benefits to mum & baby. I understand worldwide that the average is 4 years. But I have to admit Im in complete agreement with DA here!

I fed DD1 to 26 months (I decided 2 years and then life was too complicated with DH working away lots until 26 months) and Im aiming at 24ish months with DD2.

It never ceases to amaze me how many doctors can be so ill informed about breastfeeding!

Anyway, everyone has their own feeling for what is right for them and their children, and of course babies often decide to self wean before mum is ready!

As for me, I enjoy feeding a 1 year old partly because of the interaction, which you barely get from a baby. We have a laugh and a joke now, and she blows the odd raspberry on my tummy if she can get away with it! Also, it sets my mind at rest regarding her eating, as if she's not eaten much that day or been poorly, I know she wont starve or dehydrate if she's still having my milk. And as her big sister's eczema flared up the first time when I started giving her large amounts of dairy products, I know I can give her all the benefits of milk without that problem.

IMO, if you are both still enjoying b/f then carry on for the few more months you were planning on!



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      nabutters
May 2008 | nabutters
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

hey,thanks for ur reply! After doing a bit of looking around on this site i have decided that i am not the only one with ppl making rude comments.I will be doing what i want and what Myah wants,thanks for ur reply!!



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veejay
May 2008 | veejay
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

My ex mother-in-law fed her last son at the age of 6years I think it is up to the indevidual 

ciao



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      nabutters
May 2008 | nabutters
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

wow!! thats quite an age to be feeding too!! i wont be feeding till that age but good on her for going that far.....



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winja
May 2008 | winja
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

with my first i breastfed untill she was 14 months old and only the did i give up because she decided enough was enough not me *sob hehe

this time id feed as long as my child wanted again as long as it was under 3 years old, after that i think its weird but im not sure why as id rather my child had human milk than cows.



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      nabutters
May 2008 | nabutters
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

hey!! i do have my daughter on cows milk during the day,2 cups a day,so i know she is only wanting me for the comfort and the time we can spend together while feeding....i think i would be sad if she decided to give it up now....thanks for ur reply!



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DarkenedAngel
May 2008 | DarkenedAngel
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

Up to age 1 year is totally undeniable, 2 years is perfectly acceptable, 3 years is okay, 4 years is when I start wondering what the deal is, 5 years is when I start asking questions.



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Libby24
May 2008 | Libby24
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

my hubby was b/f till 18months. i hav hard of ppl fding at the age of 4. i personally think that is too much. up to 18 months is good i think. but it is ur choice.



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toosh
May 2008 | toosh
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

I fed my youngest until about a week off 14monts - and it was really his choice to stop then. I would have fed my oldest longer but he refused the breast when I got pregnant with number 2. My doctor is a little similar in thinking to yours but he would never come out and say that! I would tell your doctor that it's your choice & you don't want him commenting about it. It's up to you and your bub when you stop breastfeeding, don't let anyone else influence you. I don't think there is anything wrong with breastfeeding for as long as you want - up until kinder age anyway.




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      nabutters
May 2008 | nabutters
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

 

hey! yes i dont think my Dr should have made the comment he made. Totally not his choice and i think he just was going with the numbers of mums that feel they have to give up at or before 12mths now as they have to go back to work...Well i dont have to go back to work,so maybe he should have considered this....a postive comment would have been better like,"wow ur doing so well feeding still".......whats with ppl these days?? thanks for ur reply!

 



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nickyjade
May 2008 | nickyjade
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

My close friend still breastfeeds through the day to as well as the morning and evening and her daughter is 16mths old. Im sure its up to you, dont worry what the doctor says as long as your bub is putting on weight and you giving bub food too I cant see the problem. The only thing is when they are old enough to hit school it may be a little werid, Best of luck



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      nabutters
May 2008 | nabutters
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

 

hey,thanks for ur reply,she is a smaller build than most kiddes but she eats 3 meals a day as well as 2 cups of milk a day,so i dont thikn she is wanting mamma's milk for anything but comfort...i will keep going till she decides to have no more,or when she is 2,thanks



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encorepi
May 2008 | encorepi
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

My first son I battled from day one, until about 10 months.  ONLY because I had struggles.  The second son took to the breast like a duck to water and didn't get off it until he was over two, I know that he would still go to the breast in the May of last year and he had turned two in the Feb, so 2 and three months.  I don't care who you do it for, it is up to you.  Elijah didn't do it for nutricion, he did it for comfort, but I didn't care. 

I would let the doctor know straight that I didn't appreciate the comments, there is nothing wrong with what you are doing, as long as you are happy doing it. 

If you really want to know you aren't the only one, you should look at the nursing mothers association, some people feed there newborns and are still feeding their toddlers and older. 

Good for you.

Jodi



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      nabutters
May 2008 | nabutters
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

 

hey jodi,yes and so did we,struggle that is,right up till she was 9mths old.....it was so hard and not rewarding at all....tears and never looking forward to that time that i should have been enjoying....and that is one reason why i am loving this bond we are having now...has taken a while but we are here now and i am not willing to give that up just because of my insensitive dr who just doesnt seem to have any idea of what we feel and what we went through,and most of all,what benifits it still has for her!! thanks for ur comment!!!



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kseers
May 2008 | kseers
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

Don't you hate that!  My daughter turns 2 today and I am still feeding her - just once in the evening.  I would like to stop soon, but I also would miss it.  My son fed to 20 months and stopped when he was ready - but little miss loves it too much to stop!  In fact the World Health Organisation (and the Australian Breastfeeding Assoication) recommend breastfeeding to two years and beyond!  Stop when you have had enough - and don't worry whether it is too old!



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      nabutters
May 2008 | nabutters
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

all u mothers have been great with ur replies and very postive....thank u for ur help !!! i have looked int othe aussie breast feeding assoication and maybe i need to give this site to my dr to read! good work with ur daughter!!



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           kseers
May 2008 | kseers
Re: how old is too old to breastfeed??

Not a bad idea!  Your dr is sadly not unusual - I have had several!  It was a nice change the other day when I went to my dr's new partner and she said "i presume you want to keep feeding" and was really positive about it - a nice change!



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