Hi Fi, That does help a great deal thank you for telling me I'm not alone and not insane, I was even worried I might be Bi-Polar or something.  Does it feel as though the front part of your brain is being compressed????    maybe we should be support people for each other LOL.  I even thought I might get tested for thyriod imballance (I still might, can't hurt, it's just a blood test)  I can't believe what a chore everything is.  Today is actually a lovely day out for a change and I should take our 2.5 year old for a walk to the park, but I'm so tired I'm fighting just not going back to bed.  Coffee, Sugar, Low Gi Foods, and extra vitamins don't work, I hate men, they enjoy the insemination and then nothing else happens to them, where's the justice.  Why couldn't I have just 1 nice happy Angelina Jolie style glowing pregnancy.  I don't even feel pregnant.  At leat the first time I did feel pregnant and special, this time I keep forgetting that I am pregnant and I just know we're getting another baby, we may as well be going to adopt or foster for all the bond I have so far.  It's all just so bitterly dissapointing.  This is the last baby we'll have and I had such hopes of enjoying it properly this time, and so far it's just the opposite. sigh and sob.

it might seem disappointing now but it's only because of how you're feeling atm with the tiredness, and not feeling pregnant etc. the tiredness i'll most likely put down to hormones, you should be taking a folic acid and iron supplement everyday of your pregnancy anyhow, but you can still be low in iron, so i'd get your iron, and thyroid checked (your thyroid over the course of your pregnancy will slow down anyhow).

i didn't feel pregnant in the beginning of my pregnacy either, i could feel all the symptoms like the nausea and tiredness and really sore boobs, but until i could actually start feeling the firm ball that was my uterus i just felt like i was sick (i was also feeling very disappointed as my bf at the time broke up with me as soon as i told him i was pregnant, cos i had to go it alone), but i felt differently once i actually "felt" pregnant, where i could feel and see my stomach and feel the kicks. it might help to keep telling yourself YES i am pregnant and thinking pregnant, it might help to change your point of view.

it could very well be that you are depressed, i know i was feeling a bit that way with my situation a the time and on that note there are resourses available so i'd go to see a doc, but i waited it out and felt a lot better once the tiredness and nausea went and i actually FELT pregnant and it all seemed real.

I am there with you 10000000000%.... I've either had my brain removed or it's on long service leave. Somehow I just got the energy to drive 2 minutes to take G to a birthday party!!! I tell ya what it get's to about 8:30 p.m and that's me done. My mind is willing but the body just does not want to do it. It takes me at least an hour of talking to myself into doing the simplest things. Then I do whatever it is in a daze...... I feel like a zombie that just wants to sleep and cry!!! As for men, sheesh don't get me started. Mines away at the moment so I am blaming him for everything.... he just doesn't realise it lol. Don't forget you are not alone in this one...... I know only to well how you feel....... women get the raw deal that's for sure.

fi xoxo