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papabird09
papabird09 | June 25th

how can I get my child to talk?

I'm just wondering if there's anyway to get my child to talk sooner. any help would be great



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sleeplessinil
June 26th | sleeplessinil
Re: how can I get my child to talk?

The only suggestion I have which you may already be doing is telling your child everything you're doing..like mommy is making lunch now..and asking questions..would you like lunch? You may be surprised that when you ask a question and pause ( do this alot) the baby will not likely pick up on the fact that it is her turn to talk! She may babble, but she'll soon get the hang of things!! I am a gabber and have always narrated everything to my daughter, I also read to her and show her pictures of family and tell her thier names..She talks quite a bit for 15 months old and I'm alwyas encouraging her to try new words..I hope this helps



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llmunchkin
June 25th | llmunchkin
Re: how can I get my child to talk?

Your little girl is 1 right?  I presume that she has a basic vocabulary by now?  The best way to encourage her to talk, is by working on her communication in general, and if she can't say what she wants clearly, help her with some basic signing.  Once she realises the advantages of being able to communicate her needs to you, she will find that trying to talk is a lot of fun.  Another thing you can do, is ensure that she makes a reasonable attempt to 'tell' you what she wants before you just give in to stop a tantrum or tears... This will teach her the value of making an effort to let you know what she wants, instead of you guessing until she is happy each time.



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encorepi
June 25th | encorepi
Re: how can I get my child to talk?

My second child was a tantrum thrower, and was so frustrated that he couldn't communicate.  At 17 months, I had enough, particularly after one morning when I got him three different breakfasts before I found he wanted milk.  I bought a baby sign lanuage program called Tinytalk, it was a life saver.  He didn't talk sooner because of it, but he would sign constantly, and when he did learn to talk, he talks for meaning, and understanding, not just prattle.  His vocab is greater also because of our input.

I am not the type of supermum who wanted by child to excel, I was just frustrated that he couldn't tell me what he wanted, and would scream until I worked it out, so I did it for me, not him.  It was wonderful and I would recommend it to anyone.

Jodi



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      encorepi
June 26th | encorepi
Re: how can I get my child to talk?

I just wanted to clarify, you don't sign every word with Tiny talk, they just learn words like drink, eat, biscuit, dog, milk, those types of things.  Later you go into all of the animals and things like rain, star, sun, swing, play, but it still is just so that you know what they are referring to.  I might be in town and he would start point, I would think he was pointing at the bike, and he would sign dog so we could talk about the dog, but the signing was only basic.

Jodi



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Izzy
June 25th | Izzy
Re: how can I get my child to talk?

This will come in time. Your child is still young...as long as she is saying a few words regularly (mommy, daddy and a few others), she's right on track. Some kids talk later than others. My son didn't start really talking until 26 months. Before then he just said simple things like mommy, daddy, and a other simple words and pointed at stuff.

 



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kseers
June 25th | kseers
Re: how can I get my child to talk?

Talk to them lots, read books, sing - especially nursery rhymes.  One on one attention for half an  hour a day.  Listen to them and respond when they make noises back to you.  There is a good book called "baby talk" (I think) and it has a lot of good ideas.



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sMiLeByFaiTh
June 25th | sMiLeByFaiTh
Re: how can I get my child to talk?

hey my love,

i'd say our daughter is doing very well for how young she is. lol. are you worrying or are you being impatient? haha i love you.



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RiPie
June 25th | RiPie
Re: how can I get my child to talk?

READ TO THEM !! SING TO THEM!! PLAY WITH THEM!! They know more then you think before you know it they will say" Mommy will you buy me a car?"



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Arna
June 25th | Arna
Re: how can I get my child to talk?

The best way to get your daughter talking is to talk to and with her.  Also, if she sees you talking with other people, she will very quickly pick up that you are communicating and that you are being understood.

At this age, for a first child, it is expected that they will be slower in developing language, because they don't have older siblings to teach them or mimic.  The more children you have, and the closer they are in age, the quicker they learn to speak.  I have a 1 year old who is already starting to put words together, but she has 3 older sisters who are close in age to her, so not really a big surprise.



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