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Re: Is Puberty Here?????Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had only just turned 10 when I got my first period (33 years ago!) and I found it very frightening (I thought I was bleeding to death), especially as I was in a cross country race when it happened. I found it comforting when my Dad got me a book about puberty, etc and my parents also explained that it was a normal thing for girls to go through as they became 'grown-up". My Dad was quick to stress that getting my period didn't mean I was an adult, but that this was part of growing up and that it happened to all girls, but just not at the same ages. My Dad was a Doctor, so he also loaned me his textbooks on 'the birds and the bees" but I wouldn't recommend anything that confronting for your daughter as she is only 8. I did find it difficult at school when I had my period, because no-one my age had them and no teacher would have expected a girl of 10 to have her periods, so I didn't tell the teacher and started getting in trouble for refusing to participate during PE classes (swimming, or asked to wear leotards for gym, etc) until my Dad went and saw the principal and asked him to tell my teachers about it discretely. This helped avoid me enduring any embarrassment or teasing in class as the teacher stopped demanded why I was not changing into my togs! Not sure if it is the same for others, but I did have some breast development (not very much but they were there!), then I got my period BEFORE I developed the other physical signs of puberty. I would strongly suggest taking your daughter to the doctor just to get her checked out and to confirm exactly what is happening to her (if anything), but I think it is very important to chat to her first and mention the possibility of puberty to her and tell her you would like to take her for a check up to see if it is puberty. That way she won't feel any fear going to the doctor or imagine the worst. If it is definitely the onset of puberty, then sit her down and fully explain what happens. If you think she is mature enough to benefit from reading about the bare facts, then perhaps look around and find an appropriate book (suited to her age/emotional maturity) that would cover any questions she may have, but might be too embarrassed or not know enough to ask about. If she has indeed reached puberty, then it's not too early to tell her about 'the birds and the bees". I know it's awful to think about as she is only 8, but kids seem to be not only maturing earlier, but getting involved in sexual relationships much younger too, so if she is physically maturing, she is also going to go through the emotional rollercoaster that goes with it. Obviously, if she doesn't understand what is happening to her body, there is a risk she may fall pregnant in the future so arming her with all the facts is the best protection she can have at her age and will help her in the future when she does reach that age of sexual awareness. I know that I found it "icky" to think about sex/reproduction when I was 10, but by the time I was 14, girls and boys at school, the same age as me (some even younger) were experimenting with sex, some got pregnant too, but I made sure that I didn't do what they were doing. Why? Because I knew what could happen, thanks to my parents frankness and honesty. It also helped having read my Dads textbooks on sexually transmitted diseases, which was enough to make anyone think twice! Don't panic or let her know you are concerned, just talk to your daughter and then confirm what it is with a medical checkup. If it isn't the onset of puberty, then at least your GP can try and find out what it is causing the sweating/body odor, which seems very unusual for an 8 year old girl, but would cause her distress if she is being teased. Peers can be heartless at that age! A very close friend of mine used to sweat profusely, even as a child, and when she was 21, she had her sweat glands surgically removed. She had some sort of disorder where the sweat glands would work overtime...and although men can sweat and have body odor without incurring any social problems, however, women who do, unfortunately get attention for all the wrong reasons. Hope this comment helped you and I hope it all turns out okay for your daughter.
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Re: Is Puberty Here?????Help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
These days, children, & especially girls, do develop faster than kids used to. 8 years old does seem young, but is quite common. My eldest started when she was about 9, she started her period a couple of months after turning 11. My youngest is 8 & she gets smelly & has pubic hair, I make sure she uses deodorant & have taught her how to wash herself really well. I know that sounds obvious, how to wash, but we all know how quick & easy kids want to do things. What I mean is, make sure she soaps up well under the arms.
My eldest was the same when younger, would get very smelly, I would buy her moist wipes to use through the day just to freshen up. She was difficult with deodorant as most irritated her. I found spray deodorants most effective, it's just a matter of finding one that suits your child, ie, one that doesn't irritate her.
Don't panic, hun, she'll be fine.
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