Re: Nails
It seems that my 3yo son has just come through the other side of this habit. He started when he was 18 months old, it coinsided with my starting study and being away from him a couple of nights a week. I tried the paints that taste foul, but they would get on the food that he touched as well and made it taste horrible. I tried telling him that it was dirty and germy, which would last a little bit.
Finally I just moved his hand away from his mouth everytime it went there, but said nothing therefore not giving the action any attention. And he kept asking me why i had long nails (they are trimmed short, but long in his eyes by comparison), and I would tell him that I don't bite them and how his nails could look nice like mummy's if he didn't bite.
I realised a couple days ago that I hadn't had to take his hand away from his mouth for a while when he came up to me and said "look mum I can scratch you like a lion!" and saw that he actually had nails...so he got a little treat today and I told him that it was for having lovely nails and not biting them.
You could even add it as a "thing to work on" on a behaviour chart.
It's just something most of time they don't realise they are doing, and it's just another behaviour you gotta ride through!
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