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I thought I'd love being pregnant????
Hi There
I'm brand new to Minti. I'm 30 weeks pregnant with my first baby, due date November 11. I live in Melbourne, Australia and I'm a full-time primary school teacher. I've joined Minit because I desperately need to sulk! I've wanted to be pregnant for so long and always imagined it would be a lovely, special time where i'd feel fantastic and would remain pretty fit and healthy. But, It's been horrible!! I was sick with all day sickness until about 20wks, had to cancel a very exciting overseas holidays because of low lying placenta and now I have extremely horrible pelvic pain that's stopping me from exercising and making my job a nightmare. I've taken a day off today to see a Physio after the pain brought me to tears at work yesterday.
I feel like I'm getting depressed now, I wake at night and feel so anxious, not about labour or coping with my first baby, but about coping with day-to-day life when i'm pregnant. I've had depression and anxiety on and off for years and had to go off medication when i got pregnant. Usually I'd try to manage it with exercise, but that's not possible because of the pain, I'm worried I may be somehow harming my baby by feeling like this - is that possible?
I've thought about asking my doctor if I can get medical leave from work (I have two weeks left before I finish up) because I'm really struggling, but I worry then I've been too soft. I also worry that If i leave my teaching job like this I may never want to return, because I'm really hating it. I usually enjoy my job (most days!) and do want to go back to it one day...
Am I being ridiculous? I mean everyone is uncomfortable in the third trimester right? Am I just being a massive winger?
I'd love to hear from any of you about how you're coping, how far along you plan to work for. Is there anyone out there who left work early because they just mentally weren't coping?
Thanks
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