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  anonymous | July 2008

Peeing during sex?

Ok so this might be TMI but I have to know if Im alone!?!?!?!?!? Ever since I had my baby I have noticed that I dont really realize that much when I have to go to the bathroom and when I do go I didnt know I had to go that bad because I have to pee so much. Any ways my point is while my husband and I had ex I though I peed a little which has never happend before and when we were done and got up there was this huge wet spot. Im worried could it be there is something wrong with my bladder? This never happened before!!



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Arna
July 2008 | Arna
Re: Peeing during sex?

I'm guessing that your baby is probably only a few weeks to 3 months old.  Your body is still recovering from the whole pregnancy and birth experience, so it is very common to not notice when you need to pee etc, because the nerves are still getting back to normal.

You need to do some pelvic floor exercises.  These will help to tighten everything back up again. Imagine you have a little ball at the entrance of the birth canal and you have to squeeze it right up as high as it can go.  Use your womans muscles and squeeze tightly.  Hold this for about 5 seconds and release.  Repeat at least 10 times in a session.  It is recommended that we spend about 15 mins a day on our pelvic floor, but the best news is, you can do the exercises any time.  Do them while hanging out the washing, doing dishes, out shopping, while at the computer etc.  And do them during sex!!!!!!  It helps to really tone you up and your partner should enjoy the extra squeeze too.  I know mine does.

The wet patch could also be because the semen leaked out again.  This is because your body isn't tight enough again to hold it in, but with time, and the pelvic floor exercises, it will fix itself.

If you experience any discomfort during sex, like pain in your stomach, then take it slower or change the positions you are using.  If there is a burning feeling, then you might need to get that checked out before it develops into a bladder infection.

 



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bubba76
July 2008 | bubba76
Re: Peeing during sex?

Hi, dont be embrassed in asking...most of us have had children and know what its like and getting the muscles tighten once again. R u 100% sure it is pee and not female ***********, l asking this as females can as well. l hope l dont to rude in saying this.

Hugs



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      bubba76
July 2008 | bubba76
Re: Peeing during sex?

word missing - l meant to say: l hope l dont sound to rude in saying this.(baby in my arms)



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           monyq83
July 2008 | monyq83
Re: Peeing during sex?

Good point. I dont know about you ladies but I learnt to have stronger orgasms after giving birth but I think that's coz I did my pelvic floor exercises.

Ive done an advice in the past about strengthening your pelvic floor, i'll add the link in to this post. Maybe you can try that and if it's not that maybe you've just discovered the art of squirting.

(Go on someone, report me lol)



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Ravenheart
July 2008 | Ravenheart
Re: Peeing during sex?

Id say its normal, you just need to do some pelvic floor excersises.

have a look at these article, it will help

xoxo

 



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FremantleDocker
July 2008 | FremantleDocker
Re: Peeing during sex?

I think it's just natural to do that what has happened after you've given birth to your child etc. Your muscles do tighten up around your vagina area etc but don't go back as tight, so some fluid will squeeze through more if that makes sense



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