You poor thing.  That is really a blow to your self-confidence and to your trust in others.  But please remember that as hurtful as it is, the good thing is that you are free from this man and his lies.  It sucks that he's putting forward the same lies again.  If you're concerned, it may be worth reporting your knowledge and how you gained it in an email to the moderator of the site.  But past that, I would suggest the best thing to do to get over this man, is to ignore him as much as possible and remind yourself that although this man is a creep, there are still perfectly good men out there. 

Why not try focussing on yourself for a while and doing things that make you feel good?  When you feel good and confident about yourself, you'll be in a much better position to offer something into a relationship with someone else.

Best of luck with everything.

one way to get over it is just put it behind you and focus all your good vibes into raising a sucessful child.  dont lose faith in the males you will find the right one eventually.  right now you need to spend time with you child and let people on the site know what he is doin.

hope i helped