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TwinBoyzMa
TwinBoyzMa | August 23rd

How can I get my preschool boys to stop YELLING??

Really, I know the answer to that: stop YELLING myself.

Easier said than done, though. We are in a viscious cycle. I have always been a loud talker, and my boys have certainly picked that up --- right now they are being superheroes and everything is at top volume ... until "disaster" strikes, when they truly break the sound barrier.

My family is under a lot of stress, right now especially. The kids are vying for my attention while I am trying to take deep breaths and find some calm for myself. The more I tune them out, the more they clamor.

The support network, such as it is, is stretched to the max, so this is not about finding some time to get away. If anyone has practical advice (should I put cotton in my ears and join in their game??) to get through all the minutes of all the hours of the day, I'd be so grateful... 



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Arna
August 24th | Arna
Re: How can I get my preschool boys to stop YELLING??

Guilty with the yelling here too, but sometimes, it's the only way to get their attention.  have you tried just sitting in the middle of the floor, turned slightly away fromj them looking at the floor.  Oh, and not making a noise.  It might make them stop what they are doing in order to see what you are upto.  Or you could always throw a tantrum, like I imagine they would on occasion, again on the floor kicking and all!  Any thing that is new and would shock them would work.



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mum2alittleboy
August 24th | mum2alittleboy
Re: How can I get my preschool boys to stop YELLING??

Could you engage in some quiet play with them? If they are being just too loud maybe start a quiet game like hide and seek. Read a book with them. Draw some pictures together or do some painting or other art activities. If their mind is occupied and they are trying to concentrate on a specific quiet task they will stop yelling and running amok.

Another idea is to let them outside to run it off. Go out for the afternoon if being cooped up inside is too much. Maybe a trip to the park, museum, botanical gardens or something like that.

Another idea is cooking. This usually calms roudy kids and they are always so proud of their efforts when they have finished.

If you don't want them running around playing superheros maybe you could stop them watching it. My nephew is almost 3 and he isn't allowed to watch anything except ABC kids. I am much the same. My son will never be watching anything violent or cartoons because these programs can cause violent behaviour in young kids.

Maybe it's time to teach them about inside voices. If all else fails, crank some music up really loud and dance with them. Don't worry how you look, they will have a ball!



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      TwinBoyzMa
August 24th | TwinBoyzMa
Re: How can I get my preschool boys to stop YELLING??

Thank you mum2... and others -- so many generous suggestions and words of encouragement are really helping. And I love the idea to cook.

A friend gave me 5 huge yellow summer squash from her garden yesterday and I found a recipe for curry squash soup ... I hope it will be bright yellow too. That's today's project.

Cheers, everyone.



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Domestic-warrior
August 23rd | Domestic-warrior
Re: How can I get my preschool boys to stop YELLING??

Have you tried ear plugs or a mp3 player?  Serious, not joking!  I don't know, my three year old who is days away from four has suddenly gotten really loud and vocal.  I have read a book called Raising Boys and learnt that at about  the age four they have a surge of testosterone, so i am putting it down to that.  We can be quite a loud family, but no one would be heard if we weren't

My yoga teacher swears by going into the childs pose when the kids are 'carrying' on - maybe you could try that.  I'm sure you would render them speechless!!



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      TwinBoyzMa
August 23rd | TwinBoyzMa
Re: How can I get my preschool boys to stop YELLING??

I love the yoga suggestion! Might stay there all day ...

Thanks!



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           Domestic-warrior
August 24th | Domestic-warrior
Re: How can I get my preschool boys to stop YELLING??

lol, i know what you mean!!



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Izzy
August 23rd | Izzy
Re: How can I get my preschool boys to stop YELLING??

How old are your kids?

My son is 3 1/2 years old now and just starting to have a little bit of volume control. I remember several months ago loosing my voice and and because of it I had to just mouth my words. Lo and behold, my son quited down most of the time in order to figure out what I'm saying. :-) But I needed to get his attention first though. And other than this, it's a constant reminder not to be loud when we're out and about.  Just a couple of weeks ago,he was able to join the family at church instead of going to the church nursery. Again, I had to constantly remind him to whisper but it's finally working. The other thing I do is to do a lot of pep talk before we get anywhere. I tell him that he must be quiet or we will have to stop going there, etc.

I hope you get a lot of good suggestions from others. Good luck.



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