Well, firstly I wouldn't recommend conceiving outside of marriage.  Children need a stable environment to be raised in.   So perhaps now is too soon.

However, when you feel you are ready, you could try the Billings Method.  I am currently learning this method myself (for contraception, but it works both ways), wiht a view to teaching it later on.

It is all about knowing on a daily basis when your vaginal secretions are optimal for conceiving.

I recommend you speak to trained teacher

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this may be easier said than done but 'don't think about it'.it stresses your body.is there something in your life you can concentrate on.go on a holiday to relax if your in a position to.it took me 2 years before i fell with my first and the moment i really thought theres no life for me as amother i fell.think of ways you can keep your mind of it all.Good luck

I feel for you.. i really do. A coulple of things that may help is to look up "ovulation calander' on the internet and put in the date of  the first day of last menstral cycle. This will tell you your fertile days and when you should be having more sex... Then after sex lay you back against a wall and feet up in the air for 5 mins to help the sperm make their long track...lol (sounds funny but i heard it works)

i agree with cookclan and say see ur dr.  i had a friend who was the same she and her hubby tried so hard i told her to get a check up and 5 weeks later she came and saw me and told me she was pregnant.  best thing is just let it happen.  stress wnt help.

good luck

My advice to you is pop into your doctor make sure there is no problems at all medically...If all is well there then this is the way I fell pregnant....

Stop trying so hard and stop stressing about it go with the flow and think that if you fall you fall....The stress of wanting to fall can do lots to your body and you wont so just sit back relax and enjoy the practicing for a bit lol....And in no time at all you will be pregnant...We had gotten to the stage that we had both said oh well if it happens it happen we had been trying for months and months then we bought a house and things went wrong with that so think about falling was not number one priority anymore and guess what I never saw a period for 9 months I had stopped thinking about it and it just happened....As I said before practice makes perfect lol

take care

Angie

ok so are u both a healthy weight? do u eat right? neither of you take drugs or drink? all these things help. if ur concerned i would go see a doc they can check u both out to make sure it all works.

also try not to think about it too much the stress can make it harder too

xoxo

Have  you plotted you cycle??? The OB can give  you the charts. You can also use an OTC hertility monitor. Clear Blue Easy makes a really nice one. They are pricey though. Good luck and have fun TTC

Are your cycles pretty regula or are they spread apart. I know mine were VERY apart all m ylife. I neve rknew it but that was a sign that I was NOT ovulating. Each period I was having was NOT an actual period. My body was shedding the entire lining because my uterus didn't know wha tto do. My body was not producing ht eproper hormones to achieve ovulation.

If the body goes too long withotu ovulalting then the uterus will not "know" what is happening and will shed the entir elining.

I thought I was haiving normal periods but I wasn't.....I never knew this until we were TTC and I plotted my temps and my length of cycle.

Your OB can help alot more. They can also check all your hormane levels in your body to make sure they are proper.

Dr will normally not do anything unless you ahve been trying in earnest for 6+ months.