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Differentfrom | August 28th

Compulsion to crawl and stand at bedtime?

 My daughter is 9 months old and it is becoming increasingly difficult to get her to settle to sleep, no matter how exhausted she is.  She appears completely compelled to pull herself to a stand over and over again and cries or screams while doing it as she is so tired.  It can take  anything from 10 minutes to an hour to settle her at every nap time.   When not standing, she repeatedly bats at the wall or cot bars and often works herself up into inconsolable tears...  She was a fantastic night time sleeper (has never managed day time naps of more than 40 mins) until she was about 7 months.   Has anyone any suggestions please for a tired mummy?



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Izzy
August 28th | Izzy
Re: Compulsion to crawl and stand at bedtime?

My son was the same way. He never managed a nap more than 30 minutes unless I was holding him and rocking/bouncing like a mad woman. It was exhausting. And it stayed this way until my son was about 15-18 months old.

Do you sleep with your baby? Maybe for one nap during the day you can both lie down together. High-need babies sleep better when they know they're not alone and in this way you can also get a much needed sleep.

You mentioned that your baby is probably high-needs, while it is a frustrating realization, it is something that must be celebrated as well. You'll see you're bright baby grow into a highly intense toddler, that will amaze you everyday. My high-need son is now 3 1/2 . We got through it and so will you!



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      Differentfrom
August 29th | Differentfrom
Re: Compulsion to crawl and stand at bedtime?

 Hey, thanks for the suggestions and encouragement!

Funnily enough, just the day before I posted, I lay down in bed with my daughter when it was nap time because I was just too tired to have a battle.  I haven't done this since she was tiny weeny.  We had such a lovely sleep - a whole hour! - and it was just gorgeous to wake up and see her smiling at me.  So, I think you're right about the sleeping better when not alone thing. I shall be doing this again and the dirty nappy washing can just wait! 

Thank you again 



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Kellzacar
August 28th | Kellzacar
Re: Compulsion to crawl and stand at bedtime?

Hi there,

It seems to be like you have one very stubborn young lady on your hands PLUS know she had a taste of something new she wants more . . . I understand how frustrating this can be but there is no easy fix here. All you can do is to perservere and eventually your little one will learn that standing and crawling is not for bead time . . .

If you have a routine for bedtime at niight perhaps you could use this as well, routines are great and they help out emmensly with our investagative bubs . .

Cheers Kellz



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      Differentfrom
August 28th | Differentfrom
Re: Compulsion to crawl and stand at bedtime?

 Thanks for that - routines are great, I agree.  We've always had a bedtime routine and it has worked fine up til now.  I guess you're right and perseverance is the key.  One day soon, standing up in bed will be so old hat :-)

*secretly grits teeth while smiling sweetly at stubborn baby girl

Mel

 



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