Take your ex to court that is worng.How would he like to be put in a nappy.Please take your little boy to the doctors hope you and are all good

OMG . .

I cannot beleive that your EX put your son in a nappy . . How totally WRONG . .  I agree with the others, you are NOT over-reacting . ..  Please go and see a solcitor about all that is going on as this is a form of child abuse!!

Sadly some kids have problems with bed wettinf etc but for some it is a medical problem. Please get your to checked out by your local family doctor . .

Cheers Kellz

i agree with cazza also was your son toilet trained then went backwards

Sorry to say this, but i would Drag his sorry bottom into court ( your ex) and make it from now on that he has supervised Access to your son..

Your poor little man, and hope that it is all sorted for you both soon..

if he is wetting the bed because of medical reasons, the doc will help him and you overcome all that...

So no you are not overreacting at all.. His father has a duty of care to care for your son , and what he has done is so wrong...

xx cazza

Totally agree with others on issue re:your ex and keeping records. Does your son talk much about his visits to his father's? How the hell did his father get him to agree to a pull up in the first place?

If your son is having constant wetting problems during the day and the night, it's probably a good idea to get him checked out by a doctor, and a specialist. If there is no medical reason for it to be happening, you might need to try counselling for him to talk through anxieties, issues, problems etc.

Hope his arm is ok, and that he is ok - try to keep positive, give him as many cuddles and kisses as he lets you, and tell him how much you love him everyday.

Your poor Son!  What was his father thinking.  Well i know from previous expreiences that putting him in a nappy will just give him a complex. Have you had him checked uot by a doctor as boys can get bladder infections and thier symptoms usually is wetting the bed and they don't really get the feeling like they need to go. I hope his arm gets better soon too! I hope i gave you some good advise. If there is no bladder infection it is just a matter of having patience and alot of love as he will learn soon and b4 you know it you will have dry beds and clothes

Poor  Boy :0(. I tend to agree with the others with he is too old for a nappy. Evan a pair of pants without undies would have been better. His father should have enough clothes there for him also.

If your son is comming back from his access visits injured on a regular basis then maybe you should seek some kind of counseling for him with a good family counciler and look into this situation. There could be a phsycological reasonwhy he still wets the bed and has accidents?

 My thoughts are your not over-reacting, with your 7 year old son being put in a pull up nappy.

As far as his broken, I don't know what occurred to cause it, but I would be keeping a record of all these events just in case you ever need it. You mention that he is a alcholic, I hope his not on a drinking binge while your son is in his care, if so I think then you would have a  reason to be concerned.

i wont let my MIL have my son over night (well I will now as he is no longer wetting the bed) but I strongly DISAGREE with pull ups. YES they save on washing but they do not train a child to use the toilet.

I personally would be seeking leagal advice.

I'd be pretty upset if someone put a nappy on my 7 year old son. It might be just a one off thing bad week or something, You will probably have to pack extra clothes if the slacko doesnt have clothes for his son to wear. Like I said it might have just been a bad weekend, but putting a nappy on a 7 year old is pretty slack in my opinion.

The broken arm is probably just a one off, but if he comes back with more injuries may have to question supervision. Although broken bones can happen even when being supervised.