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Tige
Tige | October 2008

BULLYING

Hi this is my first time here so I'll try to keep this short - I'm having massive problems with a child who has been bullying my son  - physical stuff (10) and myself - which may sound strange - for a good 2 yrs now.  Have spoken to the parents and tried to sort things out but it just doesn't stop.  He's sneaky so its not always things that others see - leaving junk in my mail box or at my front door - fairly constant thought - what do you do - you know you want to be a good neighbout etc... but where do you draw the line?? Help pls!!



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jaclee
October 2008 | jaclee
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mabye try talking to the parents again and let them know that if they do not help to resolve this then you will take it further as sometimes as good of a neighbour you can be them not cooperating just makes it hard it is just not fair for kids to be bullied i know this because i am going through it myself firstly my 8 year old son was now my 13 year old daughter is going through it



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TravellingMum
October 2008 | TravellingMum
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Sadly, some kids ar elike this and some parents are blind to what their sneaky "little angels" are like.

If it's gone on this long, tell the child you are ready to speak to the police and try and scare him.  But I would first call the police and ask what you should or should not say to him.

Life has enough stress when you are a parents and working, and you don't need this.



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Rukia
October 2008 | Rukia
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if it is out of school hours the police can be involved. the fact that you are getting stuff in your letter box, that is a form of vandalism. I would call either crime stoppers (I think that is Oz wide) and speak tothem about it. the fact that this child is violent you can get a restraining order on him to.

good luck.



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      llmunchkin
October 2008 | llmunchkin
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Unfortunately leaving unwanted mail isn't vandalism... There isn't a lot you can do to stop unwanted mail, this link to Australia Post will help to clarify this.  However,  he is trespassing by going on to your property to leave mail at your doorstep, see if you can a 3rd party eye witness statement, photographic or video evidence to substantiate your claim.  If he threatens you by mail or any other written form, like email or sms, then you have a legal case against him, junk mail doesn't really count unfortunately.

 



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           Rukia
October 2008 | Rukia
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she never said it was junk mail. I assumed Junk as in rubbish and other stuff.

I know that if a child is being physical with others they can get a restraining order as I have had a friend who has had it. made his school life hell, but his fault for being a bully.

 



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                llmunchkin
October 2008 | llmunchkin
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Actually the question does state that it is junk mail... He could possibly be leaving other mail as well, it just doesn't mention any.



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llmunchkin
October 2008 | llmunchkin
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That's awful for you, I am so sorry that you are both stuck in this situation.  I am sure that other people with more experience will offer you some advice, however I will add some links to existing advice and discussions on the site to get you started.  In the meantime, start a diarising every little deed this boy gets up to if you haven't already.  Include anything related to the bullying, including talking to his parents etc. 



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      llmunchkin
October 2008 | llmunchkin
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Check out the external links, I see that you are in Aussie, so I found a pile that are relevant to Australia. 



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