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catt72
catt72 | November 2008

schools today

let kids be kids. i will start ny saying my son ys no angel but is generally bot too bad. Can anyone tell me what it is with schuuls today thar they seem to want to turn our kids into robots. i know they need to proyect the safety of all kjds but iy jusy seems that they are happier to suspend the kids as to deal with them at school. i know at my sons school if they get 3 buddy classes (sent to another class) or reflections (things that happen in the yard)  with in a 10 wk period they automatically get an internal suspension. this seems so stupid to me as how do you punish your child when they get in trouble for something you consider to be nothing . i can understand if he was being disruptive or physical with other kids but kicking a ball against a wabrick wall which isnt attached to anything they call it a hitting wall. dues any one know how this 10 wk system works bescause it doesnt seem yo go from term to term it seems to change to suit the teachers and principle   please can anyone explain why kids need to be turned into robots at school??????



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Nikkimumofmany
November 2008 | Nikkimumofmany
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Here in Tas. the system for internal suspensions seems to be quite similar, and I don't quite understand the damn thing either. My son, also in first year of high school has had a couple of the internal suspension things and one where the teachers banned hin from school for a day. Too damn bad that I was in the middle of a TAFE course and ended up having to miss my classes as a result. When questions were asked of the reason for the suspension it transpired that the teacher was young, not very experienced and had handed out warnings to at least half the class. My son made the mistake of telling her how not imnpressed he was with her behaviour. I am all for children having manners and learning all the right values, but the teachers should lead by example and most folk I know agree that children will respond to positive reinforcement before being yelled at and banned from things.



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rose04
November 2008 | rose04
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Hi

Each school has their own discipline plan usually formulated by the school council (this usually includes the Principal,Community Rep,President of the P and C and Parent Rep)They must however follow the Education Dept guidelines.It would probably be worth your while asking the principal if you can look at the discipline plan.If other parents feel the plan is out dated or not acceptable then you can approach your school council to have it reviewed.

Hope this helps



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samantha
November 2008 | samantha
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To ensure the safety and well being of the other children in the school. School's are nothing like they use to be. When my parenst were young the teachers used a strap to wip them or a ruler along the nuckles, but they don't do that anymore obvioulsy, so I disagree about the robot thing. It's a parents responsibilty to teach there children how to be curtious and respect other people, and there thing's, it's starts at home.  



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JadieLady
November 2008 | JadieLady
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I agree- keep a diary. 

Although I am not sure how expecting children to conform to a set of behavioural expectations that they have usually set for themselves is turning them into 'robots'. If a child is being noisy or not doing what is expected of them, they can't learn, the other kids cant learn, the teacher cant do their job. I would liek to believe that it is only when it is a persistent issue that they children are removed from their class, but i know it  isnt always the case.  If you are unhappy with how the school is disciplining your son talk to his teacher. If you find no joy their talk to the principle. if there is still nothing happening go to the education authority in your country. You always have the option of giving the teacher a behaviour plan you would like her to follow, or moving schools. you could always home school the kids if you want, but there a social factors that need to be considered in doing so.

This probably isnt exactly what you wanted to hear but it's my opinion of what I would do in the situation.



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TravellingMum
November 2008 | TravellingMum
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I would be checking that one with the education department regulations in your state.  there are some bizarre rules in schools these days.  Start keeping a diary of every event and conversation so if you need back up in future you have it.



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