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cassaustin
cassaustin | November 2008

Headbutting tantrums

My little angel (lol) has recently started to headbutt things while he is chucking a tantrum. He will hit the wall, floor, door, car, washing machine.... what ever is closest. I didn't have a problem with it at first, coz he wasn't hitting anything that hard... But he is now headbutting so hard that he is leaving marks on his head, one headbutt even cut the skin coz he hit the brick wall outside.

I dont know how i can try to avoid these situations. Idealy i would like him not to have tantrums at all, but that aint gunna happen. So any suggestions how i can stop him from hurting himself?

Cass xx



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boredmum
November 2008 | boredmum
Re: Headbutting tantrums

Hey sweetie, just ignore him when he does it. He will soon stop. He knows he gets attention when doing it. Lexi used to wack herself in the head, it soon passes if you arent paying attention.

xoxoxo



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tburton
November 2008 | tburton
Re: Headbutting tantrums

My son did this as well. His pediatrician told me to pretend I didn't notice it. It was very hard, because he too would hit his head until he had huge knots, but within a couple of days it had stopped. If you ignore it and he continues to do it hard enough to hurt himself, you should mention it to his physician.



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libbylincoln
November 2008 | libbylincoln
Re: Headbutting tantrums

my son austin has autism and before he was diagnosed he used to do it allot ..my advice to you is distraction.when he goes into a tantrum either distracte him or put him in a corner on a chair but put padding in the notty corner .

thats how i did it with my son ,i would use foam to pad the notty corner at one stage i even had his room padded.

weh you go out if he does it in public have him wear a beanie or helmet.and hold him during his tantrum.

dont leave him unatended cause they could knock themselves out.

my son is almost 9 he hardly does it now but he hits himself now :(

 



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DebbiePalmer
November 2008 | DebbiePalmer
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hi my son head butt every thing. i asked alot of people what to do and i was told to try to ignore it. i know it is very hard to do but i found with my son it worked. i had to check to make sure he did not hurt himself but i did not take notice of the tantrum, i walked away and tried to not hear even though i was straining to hear he was ok. its a very hard thing to do  best of luck. be strong. hope this helps.



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Juzzy
November 2008 | Juzzy
Re: Headbutting tantrums

Hi Cass,

First i can tell ya that Josh used to do the same thing. The childcare centre that he attends actually wanted to put a headband on him so he wouldn't hurt himself, thankfully their head office told them they couldn't do it.

The only thing you can do is tell him no when he does it and move him away from whatever he is headbutting. It is so frustrating when they do it but most kids headbutt at some stage.

Hope this helps xoxoxo

P.S. Austin is such a cute little man i find it hard to believe he throws tantrums lol



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