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mikedan
mikedan | November 2008

Dealing with Young Kids at a restaurant

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aj2008
November 2008 | aj2008
Re: Dealing with Young Kids at a restaurant

If children are brought up to sit at the table at home until the meal is finished and not get down and run around in between courses, then it is easier to get them to do the same in a restaurant. Give them things to occupy themselves and allow them to take part in the conversation, but do not allow them to get down.



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      TravellingMum
November 2008 | TravellingMum
Re: Dealing with Young Kids at a restaurant

Your comments are very true - but the person who posted the question is living in Angola where social customs and expectations of children may be very different from western countries.

One of my Malaysia friends was speechless that my son at 2 would sit down to eat when he was told to.  He said "OMG!  How do you do that?"  I replied that he was going to have to return to a country where running around through meal times is NOT generally acceptable so he has to know how to cope.  But restaurants there were a different ball game as just about every child was free to roam so sometimes it was hard to keep my son sitting for long.  Perhaps it is the same in Angola?  Not sure as I don't know much about the place LOL



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mystikal
November 2008 | mystikal
Re: Dealing with Young Kids at a restaurant

Three words "Coasters and Pencils" haha



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Philosopher13
November 2008 | Philosopher13
Re: Dealing with Young Kids at a restaurant

Something that my aunt taught me is to bring a color pad and some crayons with you when you go out. It really helps keep the kids entertained at least for a little while. 



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TravellingMum
November 2008 | TravellingMum
Re: Dealing with Young Kids at a restaurant

Hi there.  Welcome to Minti.  This is a bit of a hard question as you don't emntion (a) if you are talking about your own kids and (b) how old the kids in question are.

Also different countries and cultures have different expectations of children in social situations.  We lived in Malaysia from when our son was 2-4 and kids rule to a point thre.  As we arrived at restaurants the staff would scooop our blonde haired, blue eyed child up and parade him around like a trophy, take him on kitchen tours, pretty well give him anything they thought he would like.  The culture there puts a lot of emphasis on small children and they are allowed to walk around while they are eating (a maid will usually be in tow, spooning their food in them).  We didn't allow that because we knew eventually he would have to return to his own culture, so he was always made to sit down in a baby chair to eat until he was old enough to sit in a regular chair.

Moving home to Australia when he was 4 was so far removed from that and he was expected to sit down at the table and enjoy himself but not run around or disturb other guests.  Restaurant staff there didn't fuss over him or any other child usually, and he wasn't allowed to wander around playing with children of other diners.  It wasn't too hard for us though, as the whole time we were in Malaysia we did tell him that when he ate in restaurants back home, so even at 4 he had had that programed into him and knew what to expect (to a point).

Personally, I am a big believer in children behaving in restaurants and sometimes I am appalled at what some parents let their kids do to disrupt and annoy other guests who are paying good money to relax and enjoy their meals.

So really, any advice anyone gives you here might be fruitless unless you advise ages of the children and how the local culture and expectations of children works.  Sorry I can't be of more help.



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