Hi Kelfa, I had a girl 1st and then a boy 18mths later and it was like he was from another planet! She was such a good bub that I assumed that my next bub would be also... I swear I havent slept properly since he was born and he is now 4!! It did turn me off another bub for 3 yrs then I had a girl and I thought... easy peasy!!! And she is just like my boy!!! AAGGHHHHHH!!!! But, then I had another boy and he has been a delight! So, all babies are different and I think alot of it has to do with how you are around them. Did you notice how on edge you were with your 1st born, watch them constantly, jumping at the 1st sign of them getting hurt. Then you sort of mellow out with your next bub so they get a chance to test the waters of life and they find life is fun from way up there!!!

And here I am with 4 babies and wanting more!!!! hahahahahahaha

Have fun while they are young and dont sweat the little things. Peace

Hannah

BOYS !!!!!!!! They are wild and they have FAR to much energy, they are cheeky and they NEVER listen. They are very cute though and boys don't get spiteful nasty like girls. Boys don't hold grudges like girls and you don't have to spend half of your money on makeup for boys rofl.

I think it is more a split thing 50/50 down the middle lol HUGS

 Lexi xx

i have twins. one girl and one boy (plus my third is a girl).  my boy is definitely more of a challenge.  My son likes rough play, needs much more encouragement to clean up after himself and its harder to get his attention.  My daughter, on the other hand, is helpful, clean and relatively quiet (unless her brother is annoying her).

so far i would say that girls are easier- that is, until we hit puberty.

don't let it put you off having more though.  all kids have their own special personalities, even if you had another boy, he could be the complete opposite.

I have one girl, so i can't tell, but my mom was telling me always that girls are easier than boys ...

 I think boys might be harder in that they tend to get themselves into more mischief and be more reckless, but girls tend to be harder in so many other ways. I only have boys, but I speak from experience of being a girl with 3 sisters.

seven year old girl here and a one yo boy!

i agree to a point.... my little girl is so placid! she has entertained herself from an early age she does as shes told (most of the time) and will do anything to please.

my boy haha now hes a rummin! he gets into everything all the time winges is clingy and wants to come everywhere with me i cannot even shut the toilet door or he will think ive died lol

i find my daughter can be more emotionally draining when my son is physically draining

Definitely a subjective thing.

For us our daughter has been more challenging.

I have three boys and they are all full on.  Not having any girls i can't really compare but they do seem to be different from what i can gather!  Boys do like to run around and wrestle, rough and tumble etc  They also seem to climb, are always into everything, very curious and like to 'act' out things they see on tv etc.  I am assuming all this is normal, lol.  I've also been told that boys are harder early on and girls are harder as they get older....

I think with boys you need to provide them with the space and oppportunity to get it all out of their systems, and good quality Dad time,...as far as having any more kids, well they ARE all different whether their girls or boys, so it is really up to you!!