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karleigh
karleigh | December 2008

anger

ok i need to no if this happens to a lot of people and if it does im going to go mental!!!

Today i was walking down the street 8 months pregnant and pushing my 2 year old in a pram and a group of young teenagers drove past in a car and shouted "your a fat s#ut" now i normally would have just shrugged it off as young stupidness but this has really affected me as i had  my little girl with me and she didnt deserve to hear that and i mean hello im 8 months pregnant what were they thinking i honestly thought about throwing something at the car before they speed off.

this has really got to me for 2 simple reasons im pregnant and i had my 2 year old with me some people need to grow up

Has anything like this happened to any others mums if so how did you handle it im really angry to the point of going out to look for the car they were in and destroying it i no that wouldnt help at all but im so angry and upset something a 8 months pregnant women shouldnt be especially not over some little punks



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llmunchkin
December 2008 | llmunchkin
Re: anger

I wouldn't let the ignorance of a few teenagers being rude and abusive ruin my day.  You choose to be angry, which means they win.



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inquisitive-creatures
December 2008 | inquisitive-creatures
Re: anger

I've had this happen to me a lot (not when I was pregnant though) and it's hurtful everytime, not to mention derogatory but deep down you know you're none of the names you were called and NOBODY should ever disrespect a mother especially one carrying a child and with a toddler in tow. Some of these young folks need their necks ringed, unfortunately they exist and we just have to learn to teach our own children how to not be like that.

As for a similar story, not long after one of my friends from Mother's group gave birth she was going for a walk with her baby in the pram and a carload of guys started following right behind her and were almost tailgating the pram. They kept leering things out the window at her and trying to scare her. Needless to say she was terrified but it just goes to prove what lowlifes really exist out there. The poor girl was too scared to go home just in case they found out her address but luckily she's married to quite a bulky husband who would probably scare the living daylights out of any little punk.

 



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DarkenedAngel
December 2008 | DarkenedAngel
Re: anger

Don't get angry, don't get even, just laugh really loudly at their stupidity and explain to your children that some people just like to prove how stupid they really are.

My eldest boy does that now. Today in class one of the kids that went to his birthday party said in front of the whole class that he went to the party and gave him a transformer as his present because he didn't like him. Aidan roared with laughter at the kid. He doesn't care if the kid doesn't like him, he's the one that got a new toy to play with. LOL

Makes ya wonder sometimes how some people actually survive to adulthood!



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racechick23
December 2008 | racechick23
Re: anger

when i was preg i went to the movies with my darling man. whilst waiting in line the little tart behind me (who was with her friends and bf) whisper loud enough for me to hear "shouldnt get to close or youl be pulled into her (my) orbit" i turned around and at the top of my lungs i said "im sorry if my fiance` ( flashed my ring)  and i love it other so much that we decided to have a child together" she went red faced. 

dont let petty things bother you. ok ur daughter shouldnt have heard it but be the bigger person.  little boys and girls will always be petty and when thay are in ur shoes they will feel the same. you can teach ur daughter rights from wrong from this.



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mystikal
December 2008 | mystikal
Re: anger

You're better than that so just laugh sweety. People see their own insecurities and strengths in other people, enough said really isn't it? hehe

I remember I was pregnant (and experiencing the 'angry stage' much to this poor girls misfortune) and some teenage girl with her friends made a rude comment about me when I walked past them in the cinema. Much to her surprise I just turned around and laughed in her face and said "Oh such an intelligent four letter word, did your mother teach you that?"

The look on her face when I told her this could make Hallmark rich on Halloween. I then decided to sit right behind her and enjoy all of the movie in peace.

Never annoy a pregnant chick lol

Speeding with her in the car, if only she had half the brain capacity to figure out that the driver is disrespecting her and has no value on her life. Must be hard for her knowing that not many people in her life feel she is worth anything. No wonder she is so angry and projecting all of that "this is what you're worth" garbage. That's all people think of her ;-)

 



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Alaksuleiel
December 2008 | Alaksuleiel
Re: anger

I had to deal a lot with my bust size and comments about it AFTER the birth of my eight year old, so far nothing about my size during pregnancy.

  I do understand your anger though. I have had an 'angry' pregnancy this time around!  I know you're aware of this, but it's not worth going after these immature rats.  Good luck calming down! I know how hard that can be!



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QueenB
December 2008 | QueenB
Re: anger

It has never happened to me but if it did I would be very upset like you.  I think if I remembered the details of the car and I had the time I would report it to the police.  Otherwise if I did nothing I think it would be bugging me for weeks.

Some people are so thoughtless and rude.  Just try to take comfort in the fact that you know what they said is soooo wrong and hope that your 2yo won't repeat it.   I hope you can get it out of your head and have a nice evening.



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