Sweetheart.....looking at porn, ,downloading it, what next aye. In a word he is çheating'on you. 

Show him the door, have pride in yourself, put your head up high and you will one day find a man who only wants you and not a flatscreen to make him feel good.....

Sorry but it is a form of Çheating' and lets face it, it may disgust you but not him and he doesnt care about your feelings.

THE DOOR

Kiwioz

I agree with what everyone else has said here. There is porn and then there is just plain sick. Looking at teenage girls is wrong. On every level possible.

My man watches porn. It doesnt bother me all that much. We sometimes watch it together for something different. But if i ever found him looking at young girls (ie under 17yrs) I would loose it at him. I would demand that he stops and gets help if it is that bad, and if he refuses to do that, i would leave.

some people might be able to handle it ,, i couldnt . Look after yourself trust  your instincts and ask yourself if you could live in that situation long term

i would be concerned more about the content than the actual subject. the fact you have written teenage as others have said I would be concerned about. I would speak to him about it and ask him why he needs to do it.

I personally dont care for mu hubby looking at porn by himself as it makes me feel inadiquite but together it is different. (each to their own as well)

I wouldnt leave him unless he wasnt willing to give you a reason and if they are of legal age. but I would ask that he removes all links from online or do what I do and I monitor what my hubby looks at. We decided that if we do it that way there is no secrets.

1 thing I have also found is u can not change something they did before you met them. but if it is illeagal seek help for him.

i see the porn thing as ok i mean we all do it but teenage porn no no no

if he is looking at underage girls get out of this relationship and contact the authorities at first it may start as looking at porn but then it could lead down a dangerous pathhim needy more then just looking at them

You need to talk to him about it.  if you are dissatisfied with his responses, it might be time to cut your loses and walk away.

I am worried about the teen porn though.  Men who view even legal aged teens are at a higher risk of deliberitly lowering the age of the girls they are looking at.  If you have children, particularly daughters, then it is a huge concern for you and your family.

I guess my reaction would depend on how old the "teenage" girls are. Teenage, as in eighteen or nineteen. Or teenage as in underaged porn?

In the first scenario, have you talked to your partner? Is he aware of your feelings? If you're not comfortable with him looking at porn then discuss boundaries. Agree on boundaries and if he crosses them, leave. The issue here wouldn't be the porn, it would be the fact that you're engaged to somebody who doesn't respect your boundaries.

In the second scenario, leave him NOW and contact police ASAP.

You need to get out of this relationship, straight away!

Your partner  obviously has a porn addiction, and will need professional help to give it up.

But the priority is you staying safe! Tell him although you care about him, You are appauled by this activity and will not continue to enable him to behave in this way!

Erm, I would be running very fast in the opposite direction with warning bells ringing in my ears. I dont get the porn thing at all, but each to their own, however teen and kiddy porn, nah ,no,no,no, I also find that disgusting and twisted from a grown man.

I would get out asap, and if you know these Teens to be under age, report it for the young girls sake, please.

I would have liked to know how old you are hun, and what is it about you that attracts him, are you youthful for your age? Do you have any children? I would be very warey and listen to your instinct.

Winnie.xxxx

dont know if i approve of the teenage thing as i have teen girls and am a father of 3 girls i dont do it,thats just not on for me,something else for a bit of spice but teens no way

For me personally it would be a huge warning. I would be getting out of the engagement and away from altogether I would also be contacting the authorities. Adult porn in some cases can be a great way to get ideas for a sex life that may be dwindling but looking at teenage girls is a whole other story. I really hope you make the right decision.

Good luck. Feel free and safe to minti mail me if you want to discuss it further.

Lexi xxx