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Re: Is it to early to try for anther baby
The way i see it is, it is your life. You want a large family, then no one else has the right to make you feel guilty about your decisions. I have 5 kids, the oldest being almost 6 and the youngest just over 4 months. My family kept saying no more, and while the majority of ours weren't actually planned, I still went with what I wanted, not what they were telling me to do (but when did I ever listen to them? lol)
I say, if you are ready to start on the next addition/s to your family, then go for it! do not let the opinions of others stop you from having what you want because you will be the one to miss out. Basically, don't let others tell you how to live your life, it is yours after all.
As you have PCOS, it might take you a while to get pregnant again, so the sooner you start, the quicker your family will grow.
p.s having a large family is very tiring, but also very rewarding. I can't imagine my life without my 5 girls.
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Re: Is it to early to try for anther baby
Hi,
I'm a mum to 6 kids under the age of 12.. it led to the breakdown of my marriage because we didnt both want the same things and we let his family's opinion get in the way of caring about each other. I love having my 6 kids and recently got engaged to a wonderful guy with 3 kids of his own.. We have a huge family, and we love it..
The point here is it doesnt matter what the situation, if you love your kids and you have the support of a great partner who wants the same things as you do, do what you BOTH decide to do. You are ready for another when you feel ready and if you have done two at a time, well then you know what is in store for you already.
People dont really have the power to 'MAKE" you feel guilty, and they dont have the right to either! go forward with whatever you and your family feel is right for you.. if you have a family that loves and supports you, whether they agree or not shouldnt be an issue, or their business for that matter.. perhaps they just care, in a world where everything is soo expensive, dont worry i had my family on my back aswell mostly out of worry.
We dont have everything that money can buy, but we do have alot of love in our home, those are the things you need to consider.. Heres hoping that you have a wonderful xmas and that the new year brings a new addition to your growing family, good luck with it all xx cheers from Mel
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