This behaviour is not acceptable, kick his ass to the curb you deserve better than this!!

xx

Thank you to everyone for all the advice. I had a talk with him & he swears nothing is going on. I am going to keep an eye on him but until I have proof I am not going to do anything else.

xoxoxoox

leave him asap honeyeven if it hurts really bad its going to hurt you a lot worse if you stay with him

cheating isnt the only problem here he should have enough respect for you to tell you if hes gonna be late and to never call you a jealous bitch he isnt worth it

sorry for being blunt but you deserve better

OK, he may not have gone the whole hog... However he isn't being honest, he is being an asshole and quite frankly, if she could have him, she probably wouldn't really want him.  Get your finances sorted, get some close family friend to help/support you and deal with it Dee, avoiding it won't change the answer or make it go away. 

If you want to keep him, make life difficult for his work whore and see how long she wants to hang around.  If you don't want to keep him, chuck his stuff on the lawn and change the locks.  He is feeling smug right now, because he thinks he has his cake and is eating it too... Cut the supply off, he is the one who has been making you feel sick all this time, make a stand babe, you are worth it.

Aw hunny!!! I want to give you a big massive massive hug right now!!! im with everyone else. im sorrry but he souds guilty, but hes not feeling guilty. he doesnt care. instinct is a powerful thing hunny. i like the idea of going away for a few days with the kids, to a familys house maybe, where thay can look after kids while you sort your head out. im hee if you need to talk hunny, you have alot of people here who love you xoxoxox

I am sorry you are dealing with this.  Do you honestly think he is to be trusted?  Deep down you know.  Just try and not run on emotions, but use your head.  It isn't safe to be in a relationship where the other is cheating and possibly subjecting you to other people's sexual diseases. Life is short. It only looks like the end of the rope, but you can hang on and make it.  It isn't failure on your part.  Hope you make the right decision because "If Mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!"

Instinct as the others say is a powerful protection. However this I know for sure, a loving, caring partner even in the heat of exchange would never call his soul mate a "BITCH"in that manner. I know this in my heart and soul, a partner who has respect for his other half would never demean her like that.

I think you have to ask yourself the question, why would he even do that in the first place. Maybe I live a sheltered life, may be my norms are different, but I have never, ever heard of a partner verbaly abuse the other in a loving a stable relationship, only in the unstable ones.

I would not worry about any affair, I would be demanding exactly where he gets off demeaning you in that way, and tell him straight up to shape up or shift out.

I dont know what you are facing, but I know exactly what I would be doing and have done with ex boy friends who dissed me, they saw dust and very quickly, as would my husband if he ever pulled that sort of disrespect, but he would never do it in the first instance.

Respect yourself hun and never let anyone no matter who, esspecially the father of your children, disrespect you in return.Your children do not need that sort of bullying attitude around them.

Luv Winnie.xxxx

I think you need some time out from him to think through your thoughts and feelings.  Maybe go away for a while (taking kids with you as men suck at looking after them! lol) and just enjoy being away from the stress for a while.

While you are away, your heart and head will fight until they reach agreement on what is going on, and then you will no what you have to do permenantly.

Hun, if he is cheating on you, then you need to get rid of him.  If he does it once, then he will do it again (some exceptions do happen) but the fact that he is being pretty elusive about it all would suggest that he is cheating and that he doesn't really care.  Me, I'd be out of there for good.

Oh my dee bag what can I say???? You can't really fault women's intution, we're usually quite good at knowing when something's up. You know my opinion on your other half so we won't go into that. Time to put yourself first for once miss dee. Do what feels right for YOU and the kiddies. My msn is up the wazoo at the moment but email me anytime dee bag.

love ya, xoxox

 I have to agree with everything ravenheart said. Most females know when something is going on, I feel this situation has to be address sooner than later. You  are such a beautiful loving person and you deserve to be loved for the person you are.....and you deserve happiness instead of saddness. You so deserve a lot more of everything that is good.

Will catch up with you soon.

Sorry to hear this. Cheating or not the other behaviours are not very respectful so if he wants to get some sort of trust back then he needs to step up not just say that you are jealous. That does ring alarm bells. Big hugs your way as I have been through it before I know how painful it can be. Sending all the best vibes your way to give you strength at this time. Take care. xx

Oh hun. I dont know what to say.. Corner him and make him tell you the truth whatever it may be...Just remember Im here for you ...Love ya xxx

Im going to be blunt to im gonna say sorry now lol...

Ur ment to spend the REST of your life with this man? if u cant say yes and feel it in your heart... i say u have problems...

If i was you id FOLLOW MY INSTINCT trust your self hun! sadly us women are usually right about these things.. if he is cheating f**k he of right now! dont you waste another second of your time with him!

Life is to damn short to be with someone ur only half in love with.. its gotta be all or nothing as far as im concerned!

i have been in ur situation where i checked emails etc and i finally come forward and confessed my snooping to only we shown that nothing was going on behind my back.. thank god! so u need to be direct and upfront and demand the truth!

U deserve to be loved 100% not 50%

trust ur instincts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

u know u can call me anyTIME!!