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Kirsty81
Kirsty81 | December 2008

17 month old biter

hi, just wondering if anyone has any advice .. my 17 month old son keeps biting, at least the good thing is that he only bites me, which still is not acceptable, and quite frankly, his little fangs pierce quite a bit and I am really over it!  He has had a hard life so far, having been hospitalised for over 4 months of his life due to respiratory probs at 3 months of age, including over one month on life support in intensive care.  I really don't think that this has that much to do with the biting issue at hand, he is also teething, but it's getting worse and nothing I do seems to help,

just hoping one of you out there can help!

thanks in advance, Kirsty



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samantha
January 2009 | samantha
Re: 17 month old biter

Bite her back, so that she know's what it feel's like to be bitten, then she will stop. OR a firm NO! should be surfice.



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      rikie
January 2009 | rikie
Re: 17 month old biter

I agree with you samantha, bite back gently but firmly so they realise what has happened.  It is the quickest way to stop the biting.  Meanwhile, give them a teething toy to bite on this way they will realise that this is the only acceptible way to ease their teeth trouble.



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toosh
December 2008 | toosh
Re: 17 month old biter

I have been going through this with my 23 month old for the last 6 weeks or so...it's a stage they go through I guess. My son bites his big brother out of frustration I think (they are only 17 months apart) as it's really the only way he can keep him down! Teething is also a big factor as my boy still only has 12 teeth and his eye teeth have been teasing him for a few months now & still don't look any closer to coming through. All I can suggest is to keep saying "no" sternly and it will pass...there really isn't much else you can do besides all the teething remedies - like a cold wet face washer to chew on (this was a favourite reliever for both my boys), etc. Good luck!



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Arna
December 2008 | Arna
Re: 17 month old biter

Children go through phases of this.  They bite out of frustration or just to get attention.

The best solution is to actually ignore the behaiour, which can be hard to do, but is the most effective solution.



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raema
December 2008 | raema
Re: 17 month old biter

Itchy gums is what I call it, it must feel painful for them and painful for you. Try a cold or frozen teething ring (the ones with the liquid inside). thats what I did -  good luck



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Queen-Fire
December 2008 | Queen-Fire
Re: 17 month old biter

My son we just got outta biting me, we used a similar technique to timeout, but instead I would sit him in the middle of the loungeroom and let him scream he got no attention from me but also he couldn't hurt himself without me knowing about it, if he came up for a hug I would say no you hurt mummy and mummy doesn't like it when you hurt her. After about 2 months he stopped biting me and he will still bite his toys but I let him as he is teething.

I hope this helps a bit.



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neets
December 2008 | neets
Re: 17 month old biter

 

I had a little boy at my childcare that use to bite all the time, his language development was rather behind also. it was discovered that he had problems with his ears and needed tubes.

also when he would bite we would move him away from the child he had bitten but still in sight of us and would give the other child a big cuddle and say "thats not nice you hurt when you bite""

if it is a teething thing give him a teething ring every time he bites you and say Ï would like you to bite this and not Mummy"" see if that works

Good luck

Anita XXX



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QueenB
December 2008 | QueenB
Re: 17 month old biter

Both of my boys went through a biting stage around 18 months.  They either bit me or the lounge.  I am afraid I took the hard line and smacked them on the hand and gave them toys to bite instead.  They were so shocked at getting a smack that they didn't do it too often after that. I suppose it is about letting them know that it is unacceptable and that it  hurts you.  I have heard that crying when they bite can also shock them into not doing it.

Probably not much help.  He will grow out of it. But I hope you work it out before then. 



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