Re: biting
I would be very surprised if day-care would turn down a child who bites as virtually ALL children bite at some point. Some become persistent biters, but then some are persistent pushers or hair pullers or hitters, etc. Day-care would have no-one left to take care of if they banned them all! I would discuss it with your chosen Day-care and you may be able to work out a strategy together so you are all tackling it in the same way. My DD1 was mostly a pusher, and hated the naughty-step, so this is what we all did, and my DD2 is a hitter and hates the withdrawl of attention (and it being transferred to the hurt child), so that is what I & her childminder are trying to cure it with.
It's mostly a phase and it is happening at the peak of frustration if my memory serves me correct, so as that reduces, he should bite less anyway. And it is true - being bitten by another child does work oh so well. I tried to bite DD1 when all else failed, but I couldnt do it and I'm kind of glad. She stopped soon anyway. It was the pushing that took longer! I felt like wearing an "I'm sorry my child...." T-shirt for ages, and now I wish I had another one for DD2 .
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