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  anonymous | January 2009

What shoud i do

Hi all i am new at this and i dont know where to put this question. iI have been told that my sister and brother inlaw are using drugs around there children i beleive its a form of a pill, off there heads all the time, pissed every thursday friday and sat nights. What should i do. Now my sister in law has put me down and accused me of some orful stuff..Now i beleive it was jelousy. I am so worried about my nephew and neice. They are in daycare every day(mum and dad have full time jobs), all day..they get home mum and dad dont pay attention to them as there friends arrive to either are drink or getting off there heads on pills. My mother inlaw has told me that my nephew has been sick alot and they dont even care(the parents) my mother inlaw has been taking him to the doctors for different things. Now my BIL and SIL are well off live in a beautiful clean homes(which i dont give a damn i just worry about my nephew and niece. Once again what should i do.

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Tadpole
January 2009 | Tadpole
Re: What shoud i do

As it is family I would investigate as soon as possible yourself and if your concerns grow stronger please do not hesitate to notify authorities. I read some great advice by Bruciegee you should have a look at in the advice section. Hope it goes well for you and the kids



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iamschild
January 2009 | iamschild
Re: What shoud i do

I wrote an advise on the topic of what to report and what not to report to child protection services  a little while ago. If you click on my name, my page will come up. If you click on the word advice in the box on the left, all the advice I've written will come up. it was the first one I wrote that would be the most help to you.

As I've written that, I won't go into alot here. But I will say that it's not your responcibility to determine if it is true or legitimate. Leave that to those that investigate these things everyday. You can actually end up messing it up to the point where they can't do anything, if you try to look into it yourself. We are specially trained in how to handle these in ways that stand up in court...

Please read the article i wrote, and either call or not call based on what you know, without trying to dig up more info. be natural, and you can always call later if you get more information. But please document what you do know, and don't hesitate to call if you are worried about their safety.



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Guerin
January 2009 | Guerin
Re: What shoud i do

It appears that you're getting this information second hand, so you should pop around a few times after work unannounced to see if it is legitimate.



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