Re: bullying
Ask your son if he would throw rocks in his friends faces, threaten to punch them out and any other thing these kids are doing then ask "does this sound like something a friend would do to you?" Then gently suggest that until you see that these children have become nice he should stay away from them and play with the other children and go to a teacher if they bully him while playing with them. Go to the Principal and tell them about your concerns, tell them you are writing a letter to the Department of Education in charge of your region telling them what is happening and threaten legal action if nothing is done to stop this. That should make them sit up and listen as they dont take kindly to these threats.
My daughter used to attend Catholic school and the children there told her how they were going to murder her. I spoke to the school but they didnt do anything and my baby was constantly being bullied and got the blame for it so I moved her but that school was worse so after 2.5 year there I pulled her out and now homeschool. The school went off as they get money because she is part aboriginal and she has ADHD so they get a fair amount of money for her but I refused to send her back and questioned them about the money as they never spent it on anything but they wouldnt discuss it with me and neither would the ed.dept.
I have been taking Erin to karate classes for 4 years now and she can defend herself if need be but where she goes they are encouraged to walk away where possible and only use enough force to stop the fight and get clear. On the occasions she has had to use her skills she has reported to her instructor and either praise or told off depending on the situation. Having him retaliate will be feeding into their hands and might get him seriously hurt since there are a group of them. Erin retaliated on one boy and got into serious trouble until I went up there and blew the roof off the school and threatened them wihleagal action for not providing proper care for my daughter against a known bully. This child was 10 and he used to beat kindy kids up but he hit the wrong child and Erin let fly, needless to say he never touched Erin or her cousin again but she had been bullied by this child for the whole time she was at the school and she was bigger and had the skills to take him on..
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