juliexx

julie

Well after doing all that i think we all deserve a drink or  all time out lol. Well i must say the holidays have gone quick this year that for sure . Now for me  to get use to getting up early and back into routine getting up mading lunch etc .

I hope  you enjoy your holiday break  , i get may break when the kids are back at school  lol , thats after the house work done  and chatting online here .All the best for this year  to everyone   and hope be  alot good news this year and happiness  to each and evryone here on minti .

 Now its time to get a more on as i heading off    to my gf for the weekend .

julie

Well i hope every one Had a great day as i did .

love juliexx

 take care driving everyone and hope to see you here all after xmas

MERRY  CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL  AND HAPPY NEW YEAR

love juliexx

Well it went great  all her friends came and i was nevres about  it as i  never meet any of them before ,But they were  so nice and friendly and made me fit in  like i always been there form the start .Yes  i had my frist drink in 21 years and was getting tippies on half bottle ,but i don't think i be in a hurray to have another one  soon  lol.

Well come 2 in morning i call it day and let them carry on the ones that were left , come 6 this morning i had to get and catch the flight the  home  and did i sleep  for the hr on the  plain .now my little girl all growen up  and so porved of her .

I think i be sleeping well tonight just glad i don't have another for 10 years yet , Iam hoping i can still keep up the pace then lol

juliexx

juliexx

In the mean the same thing was  any pain (not Dull pain)  or fevers  that come on get straight but up there ,But i think all be fine  its just a matter of the skin drying up and the finger healing  up which take a little while .

I am just happy that he still has his finger  even if is bent to the side a little ,It makes him specail .Thanks again to all  for your suport though this .

juliexx

Here's  my poor child with his finger hanging off , just hanging there  ,well the neigbour rang the alumbance whilie the other got ice and a nd a cotlh  to cover the hand while waiting on the albumaces to arrive .Well when we got there they were great looking at him  and at the hosiptal they  did the same thing .

they put needles in that was suspose to deaden the finger for 6 hrs but my son was but i n pain with  in two  so he ended up getting more needles in his finger  , the srceaming in pain as the needles went in just heart breaking . after the  here a bit from that they put the drip in took him for xrays  and took a look and came and show me and said we going have to take him to the rogal brisbane hospital as they can't do it there .

Well to my shock they askif i could drive him there as it be quicker then waiting a on   albumaces to come , you could image the look on my face .Well  i ask a few question  then said my son we going to a driffrent hospital  i taking you by car  , he was crying  as i had to leave him to get the car from home  , he said no mum  not  by car , so i callthe doc and said he didn't want to go by car  , so they said ok , next thing i know  they said red cliffe  thats closer .

Well to the story short i left my son scared and worry , race home by taxi got the car and got back to the hospital , they said thing are ready for you over there  . I took the xray and paper work put my child in the  car thinking when we arrive that he be straight up to thaeth and all the paper was done , but no on arrive i went up told them that they were excepting me  and yes they were but i still had to wait do the paper work then up to the ward where i saw the nurse and they want be doing anything until morning . So all night we were there  not knowning weather they save the finger or not . well that morning he was seen to at 7 in theath by 8.

Well they say they put the finger on and that they aren't sure weather  it will take but its looking good , he had broken two fingers as well .Well after the opp that took two and half hrs   he was back on the floor in three hrs , awake and sore . That after noon as he had drunk and ate toast and feeling better with in him self and was sick after eating  , to my surprise they send us home .

told to keep a eye on his finger if changes colour to bring him back in  , otherwise he be find just give him his meds and  pain killers every four hrs for the next week . so here i am at home  upset  and angry about the whole thing . Exspecaily on saying drive him to the needs hosiptal as he waiting for hrs  for a ablumance to get him there  , that took the cake  and you could image how worry i was and how upsetting the whole things been for the both of us .

As the insaurance didn't quite cover the third bike i got them new helemts and  a couple of other thing for the bike .Other then that i had a just a normal week  , my oldest  got  reward  the other day for the most improve in his class  ,  was  so prove of him as he been having problems at school  and i am working  with his teacher  and its pay off .

Well enjoy your weekend everyone and catch up soon

thanks to the the  friends that drop into my lounge while i have n't be on here ..Wow theres a few new members that have join   so its going to a while to  get to know them all . in the mean all take care and i hope   be on more often

Well i sign in last night and got the  news that a lady that i made friends with  in hospital had past away , it just put the icing on the cake for me .She had the same opp as me but she got worst after and end up with cancer .As you know mum in hospital and came home the other day  which not to happy about ( But thats another story ) . On top thatt my sis that pergrant is going into early labour  which been brought by stress   and looking after mum as well .A few weeks ago  was told  that the least would sign again as the owners are thinking of selling .

Well i heard from the another day i  can stay until they  house sell  , well that still doesn't help in a way but gives a bit of time to look around .Then today i rang my sis and they were up looking after my mum last night and they were poeple up on the portery stealing.They must of been casing the place as they went up there just after  my mum hubby left  to go out  and must thought that no one was there , Well my bil  took off after them  while my sis rang the cops

, mick got one  of them  and then the cops turn up and caught the other My sis was abit upset about and mum  was got that upset and scraced that ended calling the doc to come out and gave her something to settle her down .I know life not meant to easy  and i been though pretty bad times before but this time i just  can't seem to get handle on things .

So between  A cusion pasting on , sis going into early labour a friend pasting and mum beeing sick , and youngest with heart problem and looking for a new place to move  and now me with  me not the best at the moment  and  with what went on last night at mum place what elses could go wrong .

well thats enough  from me at the moment , i hope you have a good week

julie

I My mum is now going home just day leave from the hospital now . She is walking a bit each day and better at it, but still will need the walking frame to help her .As far as the reach goes with speach and that  its the best she will get ,but least she here with us still.

At the moment she lives in two worlds and its hard to deal withat frisr but now instead of trying say your here mum not there anymore we just decide to go with the f low with living in the past and on days where she with us here in feature.

Well catch up with all soon and havegreat today with father days

julie

So in the mean time i can only  get so much done  using this old thing and iam so bore using it ,but least i can still chat  to u all on line .Thanks to everyone who drop by my lounge and left messenger for , iam thinking of u  all

Take care and hope to up and running soon  and back here in minti

juliexx

Well i went to the doctors  and its one of many virus thats going around  , after u get over this part u end up with the flu   , which i got now  but its better then aches and pains and sort thoart and eyes .Its takes three weeks to get over the whole thing so the doc said  but you can get again straight after the flu part over again  , so i am hoping thati don't get it back again after the flu .

The kids are oming down with it but going to the doctors today , so hopefuly i can nip it in the butt  before its strates .Aparted from that  i been ok  and please to back up  and getting around.

so i have alot of catchingup to do since i been off line .i hope everyone is ok  and catch up with u all soon .

julie

Mum had her frist shower  while i was there  and we were able to take her in the wheel chair down stairs to get fresh air. The swelling  is going down  a fair bit and now she strating on soft food  and allowed to have tea or coffee with thicker in it  so she doesn't choke . Over all things are looking good  as the Doctor said but, her speach might remind the same   , but as far as walking go she be able to walk with aided of a walking frame and wheel chair if going out all day.

My stay in melbourne was diffrent this time as i had to catch trains and trams  and boy that was  a real eye opener , I can't get over  the over crawling and how many poeple pick there nose  on the train  and how young the kids were catching the train going to school . as  some be no older then 7 years old .The markets were great  and pick up few good bargins there .

Well I got some more bad news  on train while reading the paper , the policeman  that was shot  in brisbane  was  a relation of ours .It was shock to me and my sister as we just buried his bother  lee last year and buriing brett a year and 10 days  later .So in one way its been good but in a other way with this news its was  sad  as well .On top of all this  we just find out though opening mum mail that someone has stolen her details and taken out  a loan or a viasa card in her name .The bank couldn't told us any more until monday so my sister going in  with mum new husband to sort things out when the office is open.

Well i please to be back home and get some rest as it tried me out a fair bit , bit it was worth it . My plain was delay  up to hr and got in at midnight  last night . All flights out of melbourne  was delay all day and poeple from brisbane  flight went to perth than to melbourne  , so i was lucky that i got out of melbourne and straight home , even if it  was late .

juliexx

Well i got a shock when i saw mum  , so lifeless and not moving  and bruses all down one side of her face .Not beening able to talk or move her right side .After i had been in  there for a 20 min  i came out and let the other  go in  and see mum .Anyway  in all went down to have a cuppa  after seeing mum , i just couldn't whole back the crying , nor the others but we had to pull ours self together  for mum shakes be fore we left for the day .

My mum had a storke though the opp if not just after the opp they aren't quite sure .The doc said the lose of movement  is the storke but not sure about not speaking  .My mum be ic for anoer two weeks before they move to her respite  where they  help with recovery , which is going to take months .

I ring my sister everyday to get up dates on mum ,  since i came back  theswelling gone down and her eye has open and on puree food and honey drink ,She moving her toes now and slowly sitting up for short time .As far as her talking still not sure weather she be able to talk again , but knowing my mum she tell let u know if pee off lol .I am not worry if mum can't talk again  or walk i am just greatful that she still with us  for abit longer.

I be heading back down in about week to two weeks to see her again . In the mean  time all i can is ring everyday to see how thing are going for mum .

I just want to say to all of u thank  for your subport though all this its been so hard and tiring for me , exspeicaly beening back here and not seeing for myself how  she  is .All know its going to  along road to travel down  but really for the long hall .

julie

Come 5.30 that night i still had no phone  and when i rang   my sister said she still in there in and i was starting to worry and think the worse, 730 that night i got the call saying mum  out   and ok  .Right at that min tue i just cry  as it felt the whole world  has been lift off my shoulders .

Any way i got woke up by a phone call saying mum  had  stroke in darling the opp and the crampes are still in and my sister  said theres nothing we can do now  so  i waiting to hear from today  as the doctors said  to her go home get some rest as theres nothing to do but wait and they would ring her if anything happenes .

So at the moment i just waiting to book a fright down  today to melbourne  to be with mum and my sister .I am just so worry that i might get there  on time if something goes wrongs to say bye to her , i didn't to my dad .well i going now i lets u know how things are .

julie.

My mum goes in this coming tuesday to have her opp to remove the tumor form her brain. I hoping to be there  when she was having it done on the day , but i can so i just got to sit  and hope thingsturn out   . Which i know they will , its just i worry with this .

i  let u know how things goes with my mum.