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			<title>HI ALL STILL AROUND SOMEWHERE</title>
			<author>cheekymonkeys</author>
			<description>Hi all well it has been a long couple of months for me i had my hysterectomy and Caydn finally has an aide at school for 3 hours each day so i am happy about that. I was starting tyo wonder if he would ever get one. He is going well at schjool now and walks with the older siblings ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all well it has been a long couple of months for me i had my hysterectomy and Caydn finally has an aide at school for 3 hours each day so i am happy about that. I was starting tyo wonder if he would ever get one. He is going well at schjool now and walks with the older siblings to school each day.&nbsp; I am well now and have to now start getting all sorts of things for Caydn to help him along his huge jpurney of life. He will need alot of help and support not only from me but from his peers and siblings as well. He will be getting funding through the helping children with Autism package through the government so will have to get off my butt to get it all hapening for him so he does not get left behind.</p><p>Hugs Michelle</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Thu, 14 May 2009 20:53:21 -0700</pubDate>
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			<title>I KNOW IT HAS BEEN A WHILE</title>
			<author>cheekymonkeys</author>
			<description>Hi all well i hope everyone has had a great new year so far. I have been busy trying to get the education system to approve a aide for Caydn whom has now been diagnosed as&amp;nbsp; having high functioning Autism and Aspergers which basically is the same a sthe prior. It has been hard since he started school On Monday ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all well i hope everyone has had a great new year so far. I have been busy trying to get the education system to approve a aide for Caydn whom has now been diagnosed as&nbsp; having high functioning Autism and Aspergers which basically is the same a sthe prior. It has been hard since he started school On Monday each day i have taken him he has done nothing but scream when i leave him and yes it really hurts me inside. The other morning after dropping him off ay school i came hime in tears first time that week. I know he is going to be ok when i leave him and does settle down but it is the fact that i feel guilty about it. He is doing ok and has already bought home readers to start learning to read and is tryin his hardest to sound letters out. I had to go to a physchologist for him to get his autism confirmed althogh his peadiatrician had already said this is what he had. But seems that his peadiatricians word means nothing to the education department when it comes to special needs children. Caydn also has oppositional behaviuor which sme days is realy hard to deal with as no matter what i or anyone else says to him he will keep doing what ever it may be or saying. At times he can also be just sitting in the lounge an all of a sudden he will swear for no particular reason at all. I first thought that the others were annoying him but no one at these times is anywhere near him, jokingly i said to a friend thats all i need a 5 year old with tyretts! I am doing ok and am on the waiting list to have a hysterectomy by the end of march as i am classed as catergory 2. Just before Christmas i also went to see a plastic surgeon in regards to having a tummy tuck under the publis system as i have had 2 c_ sections and therefore qualify for it under that guideline. So i have an appointment in March to see&nbsp; the plastic surgeons at the public hospital to see how long the wait time may be and if i am able to have it done, i have tole friends and family i am not worried how long it takes i want to get it done to feel better about myself as i am sick of people asking me if i am pregnant and when i am due. GGGGGGRRRRRR It really gets me down especially snce i suffer depression and everything else. Well thats about it for me i will post some pics of caydns first day at school as soon as i put them on my puta. They are all so cute i got pics with all the school age and Jaya had to get in them too.</p><p>I will try and blog for my friends whenever i am able to as i have been so down and last night did actually think about suicide but thought against it because of my family and friends they all need me around..</p><p>Hugs to you all</p>
<p>Michelle xxx ooo</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2009 20:14:29 -0800</pubDate>
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			<title>MERRY XMAS TO ALL MY TRUE TRUSTWORTHY FRIENDS</title>
			<author>cheekymonkeys</author>
			<description>I JUST WANT TO WOSH ALL MY TRUE FRIENDS A VERY MERRY XMAS AND A SAFE AND HAPPY NEW YEAR.
HUGS mICHELLE</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I JUST WANT TO WOSH ALL MY TRUE FRIENDS A VERY MERRY XMAS AND A SAFE AND HAPPY NEW YEAR.</p>
<p><img height="146" width="95" src="http://www.minti.com/image/r-95-146/42394/elf05.gif/" alt=""/>HUGS mICHELLE</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 10 Dec 2008 15:30:19 -0800</pubDate>
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			<title>I HAVE RIGHTS!!</title>
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			<description>I really do not care that my last blog was reported i did not name anyone within it at all. Someone is trying to make a mountain out of a molehill!! If people do something wrong by saying things that are not true then i believe their friends should also be aware of what they are capable of. It was ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I really do not care that my last blog was reported i did not name anyone within it at all. Someone is trying to make a mountain out of a molehill!! If people do something wrong by saying things that are not true then i believe their friends should also be aware of what they are capable of. It was a minti ,mail sent to me and i have every right to post my mail in a blog as long as i do not mention members names which i didnt! So al of you who wish i was not here and think i am trying to cause trouble you all need to get a life. All i wanted to get across in my blog that again was deleted by the very same person that reports all of my blogs they do not like was that we all need to be carefull what we say and whom we say it to and tell the truth what does lying get you??? NOTHING!!!!!!!!!</p>
<p>I am not on much so really do not care what anyone thinks and some i thought were friends i have since found out are not the people they seem to be...</p><p>So go ahead if&nbsp; you want and report this blog but there is nothing that i wrote that i can see be reported for any reason.</p>
<p>I am not sending spam mail either for member whom stated i should be reported for sending spam mail..... I am merely doing this so that certain members are welcome to join the site. There are alot who already have and what emails i send is no ones business thought minti mail was private???!!!!! Guess it is not that private as admin say it is. If it was then&nbsp; only myself admin and the member who forwarded it to admin should know about it.. As i was told they wish the person well in their endevour and they are going great guns new members every day!!!</p>
<p>The site is family friendly and has lots of other stuff minti does not have and how lomg has minti been running??</p>
<p>If you have a problem with me then&nbsp; please minti mail me rather than slander me behind my back!! I have nothing to hide</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Wed, 10 Dec 2008 15:21:38 -0800</pubDate>
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			<title>WELL WHAT A WEEK SO FAR</title>
			<author>cheekymonkeys</author>
			<description>Hi all well it has been a funny week so far for me. The kids are in school holidays and are trying very hard to keep themselves busy as they can. They have been normal kids fighting and arguing over the smallest of thimgs as kids do at times. Other times they have been very good and co operating with ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all well it has been a funny week so far for me. The kids are in school holidays and are trying very hard to keep themselves busy as they can. They have been normal kids fighting and arguing over the smallest of thimgs as kids do at times. Other times they have been very good and co operating with me. They have been helping around the house by doing chores for which i pay them a little bit of money for their money boxes. The younger two are thouroughly enjoying their new day care after al the hassles of their old day carer and what happened. I will not go into detail about it here as i do not think it is the right place for it. I am going well and have t go to court next Tuesday in regards to a family matter you could say. I have been trying to stay home a bit as my anxiety has hit a high note at the moment so home is the best place for me. Tomorrow i have to travel outside of my safety zone and take Tiffany to the dental hospital in the city so that should be fun not!!!!!! I do not cope too well with going outside my safety zone. I can go certain places but it needs t be within my safety area.</p>
<p>Tonight i only have the two teenagers and the younger two as the other 4 school age are at friends of mine places for a couple of days to give me a bit of a break. One of them is an older friend of mine and she lives on her own so she is happy to have the boys as company and they were lookng frward t it too. The other two are at Brookes for a night or two(pudgygirl06) they are helping her oack as she is moving to a new house closer to me yay yay she will only be about 4minute drive from me if that when she moves on the weekend. So i am going over there durng the week to help her pack and clean the help her move n the weekend as well. She is s excited about moving in a way as she only found out today that she gt one f the house s she applied for. It will be really good for her to be closer to me as she really is a fantastic person Kelz can vouch for that!</p>
<p>Well today i went to see my psycologist&nbsp; after a few months. He wrote me a really good letter fr court next week and even gave me a ame for part of my problems well not really problems my depression and behaviours. One is paranoid personallity doisorder and then also many other personality traits as well so now i am a bt happier having a bit more insight into what is goimng on nin my head ol ol ol lol</p>
<p>Well that is all for now i am getting a bit tired will blog soon!</p>
<p>HUgs to all&nbsp; xxx ooo</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 29 Sep 2008 04:18:02 -0700</pubDate>
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			<title>WOW IT HAS BEEN A WHILE</title>
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			<description>Hi all well it has been a while since i did a blog. I have been so very busy with all the appointments with Caydn and also Jaya now. School holidays are here now and it is going to be very interesting as my children no longer go to family day care. The younger two go to a brand new ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all well it has been a while since i did a blog. I have been so very busy with all the appointments with Caydn and also Jaya now. School holidays are here now and it is going to be very interesting as my children no longer go to family day care. The younger two go to a brand new child care centre close to home and they are loving it there. They only started there on Monday this week and already Caydn is showing his true self to them. Behaviour wise i mean. He has started hiding under tables and throwing chairs that is just him i did pre warn them before he started, so they were aware of what his antics were and hopw he acan get at times. Jaya had an eye test the other day and she now also needs glasses to wear and she needs them on all the time. I do not pick them up until Friday she looks so cute in them as when we tried them on she wanted to take them there and then but i told her they had to get fixed for her first. She was happy with this. The frame is pink and purple pattern and really suits her to a tea. My eldest daughter is also expecting again some time next year she is due not sure when as yet. I am so excited at the moment as they may be coming down for xmas this year. It will be the first xmas i get to haver my grand daughter around for. I really hope that they do make it down as this xmas will be extra special with them here to celebrate.</p><p>The kids are all going well and there have been dramas in their lives the last month or so but i will not go into it here. My very close friends know what has been havppening and they have been very supportive. </p>
<p>The other day i had a really bad day i was that tired i slept for 14 hours straight lucky i had a friend here that stayed the noight and she was the one who told me to go to bed and get some sleep apparently i looked like i had not slept in weeks. One minute i was not too bad the next i was out cold as soon as i hity the pillow. I woke up the next morning at 6.30am feeling a bit better than the day before and today i had a relaxing day at home with the kids. We sat and watched movies all dasy and they enjoyed the quality time together. There was no fighting or arguing betweenh them at all until later in the day when they were all getting tired. </p>
<p>I cooked tea while they sat on my berd and watched dora with Jaya as she has now got a thing with dora it does not matter how small a picture of dora is she will find it guaranteed. and she needs glasses??? lol lol I know it is not funny about her wearing glasses but to be able to see dora in a small picture is amazing for her age. Jaya has grown so much in the last few montrhs she is talking heaps and is very clear with her speech too. Her and Caydn are like two peas in a pod where one goes the other goes and Caydn stands up for her if the others annoy her. She know s that she can do just about anything to him ans he will stand there and take it but if someone else does it he goes off his head big time.</p>
<p>The last month has been very difficult with everything happening all at once but i admit i have had my bad days and my good days. Myself and my family are strong and can handle anything that is thrown our way we have been here for each other through tough times and good times too. Friends are also being a great help being there if i need to talk about anything and even just for a chat. </p>
<p>I want to thank my dear friends for everything they have done to help me in the last few weeks.</p><p>Hugs Michelle xxx ooo</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Sat, 20 Sep 2008 03:26:29 -0700</pubDate>
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			<title>WOW WHAT A WEEK IT HAS BEEN LATELY!!</title>
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			<description>Well i have been so busy taking Caydn to appointments with o.t, speech therapist and many more that i have not had time to blog or even scratch myself. On Friday a friend of mine Brooke went to Tasmania to meet Alana and stayed tyhere fpor the weekend as she needed a break i am so grateful to Alana for ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well i have been so busy taking Caydn to appointments with o.t, speech therapist and many more that i have not had time to blog or even scratch myself. On Friday a friend of mine Brooke went to Tasmania to meet Alana and stayed tyhere fpor the weekend as she needed a break i am so grateful to Alana for helping her as she does not know her and was really good about it all. So i dropped Brooke of at the airport on Fridfay noight with one message have fun and give Alana a big hug from me. I pohoned to see that she had arrived safely as she had never been in an airoplane before but she said she did ok and had arrived and was already having fun. I was so jealous as i wanted to go with her but was unable to find someone to look after my children for the 4 days that iBrooke went for. So i came home with the kids and my phone was running red hot so i told the kids to tell anyone who called for me to say i had gone to Tasmania lol lol pmsl, the phone ran red hot all night. As Alana had not said whom was going to visit her and everyone thought it was mer so i went along with it loll lol everyone was sure it was me going to visit Alana so for those of you who rang it wasnt me!</p>
<p>So i had a quiet night Friday noght with the kids and then on Saturday i thought to myslef stuff this and rang the kids dad to ask him if he would mind coming over and looking after the kids for the night so i could surprise Alana and fly there lol lol i am sneaky. So we rang Alana and told her that Brookes brother was going to bew flying into wynard not sure if that is how it is spelt airport on a cesna with a friend of mnine as he had been in a bot of trouble and was gfoing to stay with his mum who hjas just moved to Tasmania. Alana said that would be fine so the arrangements had been made for this.</p>
<p>Sunday morning camne and i got dropped off to a friends place as the kids dad was taking them all to the snow and i was flying to tassie on a small secna with a f4riend to surpise alana when she arrived she would be expecting brookes brither lol lol</p>
<p>So i get there and Alana and Brooke looked really shocked i am sure the whole of the tiny airport heasrd me and trhey did too lol lol I was very loud and did shout out surprise its me the crazy one pmsl. Alana did not know what to do. So we get back to Alanas place and she is still cursing me for surprising her and every one else cos Brooke did not even know wthat i was going there lol lol even more of a surprise. I had so much fun we went sightseeing for a little bit and then went back home to enjoy a lovely roast tea that alana had prepared for us. It was the vbest roast i had eaten in ages apoart from my own loll ol</p>
<p>So Monday morning we leave Aklanas to get to the airport to come home Alana was not reaLLY WANting us to go but we had to get back. Even though i only stayed for a night it felt like a week.</p>
<p>Alana and her family are so very special and a laugh and joker too. We had plenty of laughs and our stomachs were that sore we were still aching whe we got to the airport lol lol</p>
<p>So we flew home and came back to reality. Brooke had so much fun she went to marlets and saw lots of lovely waterfalls as well. i managed to get afew pics which i will put up when i put on my computer. I am planning on going back there soon for a few days so i can spend a bit more time with Alana and her family.</p><p>Therre is someone i thought was a friend of mine tnat i have not spoken to or heard from in months that i have just found out from some of my friends that has been backstabbing me and saying that i do not have care of my children since they are in Family day care a couple of days a week. I would like this so called friend to live my life even for a week to see exactly what it is like to be a single mum suffering depression and having no family support and the kids daqd only coming around once in a while. This per5son has a husband and only hads a couple of children to look after. I keep my house clean&nbsp; my kids are fed i do not whinge ata ll about my kife and i i always say to people everyone lives their lives differently and no one should judge what p[eople decide to do with their children under no circumstances. This frien did also have her children in day care at one stage but i guess that is ok for them but not for me. This person whom i thought was a friend i have helped out a couple of times and asked for nothing in return. i only ask that my friends be there if i need a little support or just for a chat and laugh even. I never ask my friends late at night to come and look after my children if an emergency should arise i deal with it my way on my own. This so called friend once told me that she does not like backstabing people or people who backstab others but yet i find out that she is doing exactly these things that she says she does not like. At least have the courage to tell me tomy face what you have to say not behind my back. To this i say they are nothing but guttless and i do not need friends like this in my life that are going to try and bring me down with my deporession any further. Sorry but i had tohave this out&nbsp; of my sysytem cos it is really pissing meoff at the that MOMENTsomeone i enjoyed as a friend could be this low and say these awful things about me.</p>
<p>Hugs to MYREAL FRIENDS!! XXX OOO</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 22:01:23 -0700</pubDate>
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			<title>HOORAY I FINISHED MY COURSE</title>
			<author>cheekymonkeys</author>
			<description>Hi all well today i finally received my certificate in the mail for my course i did cert 2 in business. Yay i finally achieved something in my life for me apart from my children lol lol. I was really excited as i only handed my last unit in on Tuesday morning at about 10am and my assessor rang me ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all well today i finally received my certificate in the mail for my course i did cert 2 in business. Yay i finally achieved something in my life for me apart from my children lol lol. I was really excited as i only handed my last unit in on Tuesday morning at about 10am and my assessor rang me an hour later to let me know how proud she was of what i have achieved by finishing the course and of course looking after 8 children as well. There are some people whom enrolled in the course but sionce rerceiving their laptop have not completed any of the units at all. That to me is a waste as there may have been someone out there whom really wanted to do the course but could not get in as they were full and for people to use the government in this way is shocking to me. For what a laptop that is all they achievced and a free one at that. I myself am proud of my achievent i was behind due to being ill and having lots of appointments for Caydn etc... but i finally achieved what i set out to do, and this was to complete my course. I will be laminating my Certificate on the weekend and placing it up on the wall for all to see. I am at the moment feeling really good about myself and receiving this in the mail today just boosted my confidence heaps. I woke at 6am feeling pretty ordinary as i have bronchitis stil and getting over it slowly if only i was able to rest i am sure it would totally disappear. Rest in my house not easy.</p>
<p>Caydn has o.t again tomorrow afternoon so i am hoping he is having a good day not a bad one like last time he would not co operate at all when doing some of the things the lady asked him to i ended up helping her by rolling the ball to him while she held his arms as he does not use his muscles to do things we realised so i am not sure how that will affect him when he starts school next year. Oh well we will deal wioth that when he gets there i guess. Today is Harleys 6th b&quot;day i bought him a nintendo ds lite he is so totally excited and i have decided that this is what they will all get for their b&quot;days this year Ashlee got one for hers last week then next month i have two b&quot;days within 3 days of each other lol lol too close hey?? Oh well the two boys will get ds as well with a game just like Ashlee and Harley have got for theirs. They are really good with them as they have been sharing them with the others which is really greast so this way the others do not feel totally left out i bought the brain acadamy that was on the tv a while ago for ds this helps them with maths and other things as well so they have been sharing that around too,.the kids have been really good lately apart from yesterday morning when Harley and Tyson were fighting before school and Harley bit Tyson right on the cheek now Tyson has a massive bruise on his cheek that it looks like someone has punched him so Harley got into big trouble for that. I think he made up for it with Tyson today by allowing him to have first turn at his new ds. They were great so i am proud of my children every day as they are all learning to share and not be greedy.</p><p>I sdtill have a sore back and will be trying to go to the drs on the weekend to find out the results of my ct scan that i had over a week ago as last time i went they were not there so they should be there now i would say. I have not heard yet when Caydn has to have his mri but i hope it is not too long as i worry a bit too much sometimes i think, He is just a darling child always wanting cuddles lately and getting really close to certain peoiple. Jaya has been really good woith her toilet training too she went just over a week nopw and no accidents in her knickers until today at day care she had an accident so i hope she has not gone backwards but i am sure it will be a one of well at least i hope so.</p><p>Well i went bargain shopping tonight with a friend and i bought a $60 dollar pair of boots for $12 they were reduced then had 20% off the marked price as well so that was a fantastic bargaiun i also got a denim skirt marked $7 for $5.25 what a bargain they were. My friend also got the same skirt and she bought a really nice top that was originally $26 for only $5.25 as it was marked down to $7 then had percenatge off as well so we werte laughing all the way home at what we got our thinngs for. Sometimes it pays to go shoipping without kids as we can look better for what we want and actually buy for ourselves for a change not the kids as we always do. So i will be going shopping next week again when i get more money to grab bargains if there are any left.</p>
<p>Well ibetter get going now as itis getting late i wil promise to put pics of kitchen up soon as i transfer them to my laptop as this cpomputer is the kids one and for some reason will not allow me to put my pics up in here at al.</p>
<p>I hope everyone is having a great week and are staying healthy and having fun.</p><p>Hugs Michelle</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<description>Hi all well i am sorry i have not been around lately i am sick again second time in less than a month and here i was thinking i never get sick well it got me again. So i am on prednisilone and antibiotics again for 5 days. The dr told me i have to try and stay inside out ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all well i am sorry i have not been around lately i am sick again second time in less than a month and here i was thinking i never get sick well it got me again. So i am on prednisilone and antibiotics again for 5 days. The dr told me i have to try and stay inside out pof the cold where possible and to rest as much as i can so today i did what i had to do and then had a cat nap before taking Caydn to kinder.</p>
<p>Well today i woke up at 6 am to get showered and ready before kids got up to get ready for school. Caydn&nbsp; had speech therapy this morning he started off co operating but then got distracted and annoyed with it all so would not continue so we had to play catch with him then do some more then played throw aeroplanes in tub then do some more of the testing she was doing on him and then we ended up ending the session as he was getting really bad and would not so anythinhg he was told i think he was bored with it all as when he does no=ot like doing something for a long period of time he will play up and not co operate. So he has another session next week to finish the testing he started to day. Came home and a friend was here to visit&nbsp; we just chatted and sat with the kids and watched tv i had a nanna nap as i am so worn out my friend was really good she woke me at 12.55 as Caydn had kinder at 1. Her daughter who has just turned 2 was asleep on my lounge room floor so cute.</p>
<p>So took Caydn to kinder came home and sat and did nothing at all as i had done all my housework. Picked Caydn up at 4 then had to drop him off to day carer as him and Jaya stay there tonight for the night and i collect them at 2pm tomorrow.</p>
<p>I am not seeing my physc till next Tuesday as he wanted to see how i am going over three weeks rather than two weeks. I am doing ok at times but have alot of stress at the moment with wondering what is going to happen when i have to go to court in October. But i am not going to lket that be the end of me no way no chance.</p>
<p>My mum is coming over on Saturday with a friend of mine and hers that has custody of her great grand children and they are bringing the youngest with them as the other two are at their dads for the weekend.</p>
<p>I have finished my course and think i may go and drop my last assessment of tomorrow so it can be sighted and then they will send it back with my certificate yay. I cannot believ i have finally achieved something good on my own without someone telling me to do it or being made to do something ido not want to do it really does feel good i can hanestly say.</p>
<p>Tiffany brought home a certificate from school the other day in recognition of her continued respect of the&nbsp; school policy and what the school aspects and policies mean to them all. I was almost in tears so i told her that she was to be congratulated for that as it is not every day you get this recognition from the school.</p><p>Well ibetter get going watching big brother need to see who wins this one as this is the finale tonight. Ben just got evicted yay i do not lke him.</p>
<p>Well good night all and i will blog soon and i will put pics of my new kitchen soon as my other computer is getting fixed again and the pics are on that one. Hugs</p>
<p>Michelle and Family xxx ooo</p>
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			<description>Hi all well they pulled my old kitchen out on Tuesday so i have not had a stove or anything to cook meals. They placed the new kitchen in yesterday and i went up street to buy stuff for tea as we were going to have meat and vegies. But that was not meant to be the case last night ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all well they pulled my old kitchen out on Tuesday so i have not had a stove or anything to cook meals. They placed the new kitchen in yesterday and i went up street to buy stuff for tea as we were going to have meat and vegies. But that was not meant to be the case last night as when i came back home from shopping the stove was not in and the workmen are supposed to be here today who knows what time to put it in. Spo we had to have take away again last nigth it cost heaps to feed us all. I am seriuosly hoping they do come back today to put it in as so far i have heard nothing from them and yesterday morning they were here by 8am to do kitchen. I wonder if they just want me to stress wether i will have a finished kitchen today as we were having jokes all day yesterday lol lol lol.</p>
<p>Well i went to the drs the other night as i had had enough of the pain in my back and right down my legs i have put up with it for 2 weeks now so enough waas enough. The dr gave me strong pain killers as i was unable to even sweep m,y floors or fold washing out of the dryer that is how bad the pain was, it was there constantly he also has me on anti imflamorty (?spelt wrong i think) tablets and yesterday i had to go and have a c.t scan on my spine and left hip as i have osteoarthritis in left hip so that may be flaring up due to the cold weather we are haviong here.</p>
<p>My friend is coming over today and we are hopefully going to go up the street to look at what we cannot afford to buy lol lol. I got Ashlee her b&quot;day present yesterday as oiit was her b&quot;day Monday but i did not get paid until yesterday myself and a friend went half half in a Nintendo DS for her with a game and a case with ear phones, two cases for games when not in use and a lanyard type thing. It only cost $229 for the lot and total value if bought individualy would be around $300. So we got a bargain and a half. We have decioded that this is what we will be doing for all of my kids b&quot;days this year . Some people are telling me i am silly buying them as they think they are all too young for them and will not appreciate them at all. How can children learn to appreciate things bought if we do not give them a chance to show that they can look after things and not wreck them?? I am even going to get Caydn one for his 5th b&quot;day as he has the mild autism and i think it wil be good for him to keep his brain thinking while playiong games. Do you think he is too young?? </p>
<p>Well better go and find something to do before they decide to get here and do the rest of the klitchen.</p>
<p>WQill put pics up soon</p>
<p>Have a great day </p>
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			<title>WHAT A WEEK SO FAR!</title>
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			<description>Hi all well woke at 6am to the kids as usual talking this time not fighting they were actually being nice to each other thats a change in the mornings for them.lol Well today i had workers coming in to pull my kitchen out and the new one is finally going in tomorrow yay about time. So i have taken ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all well woke at 6am to the kids as usual talking this time not fighting they were actually being nice to each other thats a change in the mornings for them.lol Well today i had workers coming in to pull my kitchen out and the new one is finally going in tomorrow yay about time. So i have taken pics of before during and after demolition and will take more tomorrow as the put my brand new kitchen in. I cant wait i will be up with the birds in the morning waiting for them to come to put new kitchen in lol lol.&nbsp; I had so much fun watching them taking the old kitchen out so tonight i have no stove no sink no taps no nothing in my kitchen except the pantry cupboard. I cannot even make a warm milo so am just about to go over to my neighbours to have a lovely warm milo. I help them out all the time as they have a gorgeous baby who is 4months old on wednesday and they call me his Gran Nan lol lol i am like a nan to him. He was born addicted to heroin so his aunty and nan have custody of him at the moment i love being able to hand a baby back when they are crying and then i love having him here for a few hours while they do what they have or if the daughter who actually has custody goes out with her friends to have a good time.&nbsp; I will put pics of my kitchen up when i get a chance to and i laugh everytime now i look at them.</p>
<p>Well better get going and have my warm milo before bed and i will blog as soon as i get a chance to as when the kitchen is in i have to put everything back where it belongs i cant even use my dining table.</p>
<p>Well got to go now blog soon</p>
<p>Hugs Michelle xxx oo</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<description>Hi all well woke this morning at 5.30am as kids were up already(naughty) watching tv. So got up and asked them why they were up so early even the birds were still sleeping? They replied well this oner woke me and that one woke mne etc...... the usual in my house in the morning always blaming one another.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all well woke this morning at 5.30am as kids were up already(naughty) watching tv. So got up and asked them why they were up so early even the birds were still sleeping? They replied well this oner woke me and that one woke mne etc...... the usual in my house in the morning always blaming one another.</p>
<p>Well any&nbsp; way sms Alana to say hi went to the dentist with Ashlee and they said she has perfect teeth no holes thank goodness and amazing too. She has an overcrowded mouth but they are hoping that when she reaches grade 5 or 6 that it will fix itself otherwise she may need braces or something to help straighten them. I am still awaiting Caydns mri appointment not sure how long i need to wait for that. Caydn has occupational therapy again next tuesday so will see how he goes with that this time as last week he would no co operate properly with the ot lady. He was as i ssay bouncing everywhere but where he should have been lol lol he looses concentration very easy and if he does not like doing something he wil not co operate with anyone no matter what.</p>
<p>Well today was freezing cold we know winter is definately here now. Tonight we are meant to be getting gale force winds,thunder,lightning and even hail stones maybe it feels that cold outside that it seems like it would snow i wish it would here lol</p>
<p>Well tomorrow i am staying home and going to try and rest a bit as my whole body at the mopment is aching from my arthritis and osteoarthritis all my back and legs are really hurting even to walk is painful. I have been putting tiger balm on and it relieves the pain a bit but i think i may need to go ot the drs soon for something for the pain as panadol is not working at all. I will get there the dr did tell me a couple of weeks ago that it would get worse over the years but not in 2 weeks. The cold weather has hit me hard with it this year so am rugging up warm as i can handle it.</p><p>The kids are getting bored now wioth the holidays and are getting excited about going back to school especially Ashlee as it is her 9th birthday on Monday so she wants to see all her friends. The kids have been to the museum, aqaurium and play centres with their day care worker over the holidays so they have been busy like me lol</p>
<p>Well i better get going as i am aching from typing and sitting down for too long. I will blog on the weekend when i get a chance as am having visitors tomorrow and over the weekend.</p>
<p>I hope everyone enjopys the rest of their week and the upcoming weekend. I also hope that those with children on school holidays have fun and enjoy their weekend and enjoy sanity again when the kids are back at school. I do enjoy having mine home but they hate it as they get bored too easily and end up fighting all the time. Bring on monday they are saying right now.</p><p>Hugs Michelle xxx ooo</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<description>Hi all well i know it has been a while sionce i blogged i apoligise! I have been busy with the kids and trying to keep them occupied with the holidays. Well Caydn got his glassers last thursday he looks so cute wearing them looks like a proffessional. I will add pic as soon as i get a chance as ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Hi all well i know it has been a while sionce i blogged i apoligise! I have been busy with the kids and trying to keep them occupied with the holidays. Well Caydn got his glassers last thursday he looks so cute wearing them looks like a proffessional. I will add pic as soon as i get a chance as i have heaps of appointments to keep.</em></p>
<p><em>Caydn finally started o.t last Friday he did well but now she is referring him to a physio as we realised he does not use his muscles in his arms or fingers especially when he draws pictures so she want to get a physio to asses him and see what they say. It seems to be one thing after another with him. Oh well it is all good i guess in the long run for him and me too it will benefit him heaps for school and the rest of his learning life and beyond. He has been on the go every day he never seems to stop lately&nbsp; but he makes me laugh sometimes at the things he does. Today i received a phone call from his Peadiatricians office it was the receptionist calling to let me know that the pead wants Caydn to have a m.r.i under general anisthetic as the opthamoligist said the other week that the optic nerves are bulging but the pressure in them is fine so the mri is to see if they can see anything hat would cause this. I am not sure when this wilol be done as they were faxing the referral off today so i really hope it wont be too long.</em></p>
<p><em>Today Tiffany6 had the dentist and had to see a specialist as well for hwer teeth as one of her eye teeth is still&nbsp; a baby tooth and they did an x-ray a while ago to see if thery could find the adult tooth. They did find it and it is growing in an awkward place in her gums&nbsp; so today they took impressions of her teeth and are sending them along with the x-ray to the dental hospital in Melbourne for them to asses what they will do. The dentist told me that the way the tooth is growing can&nbsp; harm nerves and the roots of the other teeth in her mouth. So she&nbsp; will more than likely have to have dental surgery to either cut her gum and take tooth out or see if they take the baby tooth pout and move the tooth down to where it should be. I am hoping for the best. I will keep you all updated on it all.</em></p>
<p><em>Well this is the last week of holidays and the kids are getting excited to go back to school next week and next Monday is Ashlees' birthday she wioll be nine. Th e years have gone so fast.</em></p>
<p><em>&nbsp;I am still seeing my phsyc on a fortnighly basis now and am doing ok i guess. I am feeling a bit down lately as i received my charges from the problems i had with a family member earlier this year and i have to go to court on 7th October. I HAave been to see a solicitor already so i know what i am looking at. I was hoping to go away for a few days but do not feel that i will be able due to the way i am feeling within myslef. I want to go away and have fun but feel i will not be able to fully enjoy a holiday the way i am and do not want to make anyones week bad. I will organise a holiday later this year whyen all is over and done with that way i can enjoy it mopre.</em></p><p><em>Well my border has moved out yay. I am so glad at the mopment as she was start6ing to make me feel really down she only paid $100 the whole month she was here which is wrong as she had nothing else to pay.. She still has not got her sons her ex has them and i think he is going to keep them and not give them back as it has now been about 2months so the chances of her getting them back are near to nothing.</em></p>
<p><em>On Saturday i had a friend here for the day and she had bought two pkts of hair dye the wash out ones and did my hair she thought it was quiet funny as it is purple lol lol i told her i look like a purple people eater now i hope it washes pout really soon. But everyone says it does not look too bad i am getting used to it and think every morning when i wash my hair that i am a day closer to it comi9ng out lol lol lol .</em></p>
<p><em>Well that is about all for now as i am getting a buit teary and down i will blog again soon i promise.</em></p>
<p><em>Hugs Michelle xxx ooo</em></p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>HEY ALL I AM STILL HERE!</title>
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			<description>Hey everyone thought i would do my blog before the weekend starts. Tonight we had people over for tea. We had yummy chops and scallop potatoes with other vegies. Today is a friend of mines daughters birthday she is 2. Tomorrow we are having a party with a Jumping Castle yay it will be so much fun. My yard is ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey everyone thought i would do my blog before the weekend starts. Tonight we had people over for tea. We had yummy chops and scallop potatoes with other vegies. Today is a friend of mines daughters birthday she is 2. Tomorrow we are having a party with a Jumping Castle yay it will be so much fun. My yard is so big we could fit 4 jumping castles in there lol lol. My kids love riding their motor bikes in the yard and racing each other it looks so funny when they do it. Well i am sitting here doing my blog and chatting to a friend that is here as well. I am looking after a friend of mines sons tomorrow for a few hours which will be good. These two boys are the two whos mother has handed custody over to their dad so she can party and basically do what she wants with her life. She is staying with me at the moment which in a way is starting to piss me off big time as she only paid me $50 for two weeks she has been here so far that is it wil be 3 weeks this sunday. Who needs it npot me at the moment.</p>
<p>Today some stupid idiot almost made me smash into them when i was taking the kids to their daqy carers place for the night. I missed a serious accident by about half an inch. I went right off my bloody head i stopped traffic and was going to get out of my car and really knockhim out but i thought better of it. I just tooted my horn and yelled out my &nbsp;window at him. I almost felt my car start to roll but i got control of it very quickly to avoid it happening.</p>
<p>&nbsp;Sunday my mum is coming over to take Tiffany shopping for her birthday present so all the kids will be happy to see nan then for a few hours as well as they have not seen her for about 2 weeks.</p>
<p>The holidays are here and i need to find lots to do with the kids so they do not get bored.</p>
<p>I have everything nearly in order for Caydn for assessments for school next year as i seen the vice principal this morning and talked to her and the&nbsp; guidance officer as well in regards to what we need to do. I have to find all the reports i have from all the different people he has seen in his four years of life. That should be fun to find where i put them lol lol. I will find them soon enough i think anyway.</p>
<p>Caydn is starting Occupational Therapy next Friday morning and then he gets his glasses next week sometime they will be ready so when he gets them i will take a pic and put in my blog for everyone to see how cute he looks with them on. He is so very excited about getting them which is a good thing i guess.</p>
<p>Well i have to go now as Bj needs to get picked up from work at 9pm if i not there he will ring me soon to see if i am still picking him up.</p>
<p>I hope everyone has a good weekend and enjoy the good times with family and friends!</p>
<p>Night to you all and will blog as soon as i get a chnace and i will also take lots of pics morro of the kids on jumping castle too.</p><p>Hugs Michelle xxx ooo</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<description>Hi everyone thought i would drop by to let you alll know tht i am getting better by the day and have been resting finding different things&amp;nbsp; to do during the day as the kids dad still has me staying inside so i dont get nay sicker. I am still trying to organise to go away for a couple of ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi everyone thought i would drop by to let you alll know tht i am getting better by the day and have been resting finding different things&nbsp; to do during the day as the kids dad still has me staying inside so i dont get nay sicker. I am still trying to organise to go away for a couple of days with a friend but it will deoend how i feel as the day gets closer so we have not made any reservations or anything for ths reason. I feel worried going too far away from homem as this is my safety zone and i do not like to go too far from home nowadays.&nbsp; I will miss the kids too much if i went away. So i think we may just go to Melbourne for the weekend and stay with my mum as she has 2 spare bedrooms and lives on her own we can go out and party while we are there too if we want. Then if there is an emergency we can rush home to deal with that.</p>
<p>I am slowly on the mend from my pnehmonia and keeping warm is the best medicine at the moment i think staying inside is good. Everyone does everything for me i just sit back and relaz loll lol lol</p>
<p>Well tomorrow is Tiffanys' 14th Bday she is having a smallish party here on Saturday as my friend little girl is 2 on Friday so we have prdered a jumping castle for the day. The day wil be so much fun i think i may even try my hand at jumpng on the jumping castle lol lol i would most likely pop it. Then Tiffany is going to the blue light disco with her friends she goes to this every month usually the last saturday of the month.</p>
<p>I am going to get going now and get some sleep as i have to get up early and take a froind to the drs tomorrow and do a few things to.</p>
<p>Hope everyone is having a great week.</p>
<p>For those of you who may be unwell i hope ou all get better soon.</p>
<p>Hugs Michelle xxx ooo</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<description>Hi everyone sorry i have not been on lately i went back to the drs on Wednesday night as i was feeling worse by the day. The antibiotics i was on were not working as the dr thought they should be, I was feeling worse every morning i woke. So i went to see my usual dr on Wednesday night ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi everyone sorry i have not been on lately i went back to the drs on Wednesday night as i was feeling worse by the day. The antibiotics i was on were not working as the dr thought they should be, I was feeling worse every morning i woke. So i went to see my usual dr on Wednesday night and he has put me on stronger antibiotics and also prednisilone 50mg for 5 days. He said i have pnemonia and am not allowed to go outside and have to rest. So yes i have been doing this and the kids dad is here to help me too. He has been going to the shops and dropping kids at their day carers house for me. Tonight i wanted to go to the video shop to hire some movies to watch but he told me i was not allowed to lol lol. So as ordered i did not go he and a friend of mine went for me. So i have just been sitting here doing my course and guess what??? I FINISHED my course last night now i have to ring when i feel better to go and have my very last assessment done and get my certificate. I feel so proud of what i have achieved in 6months and i am also starting to take pride in myslef and the way i dress. Everyone has been complementing me on rthe way i am dressing i am doing it for me no one else. I just want to start feeling good about my life and where i am at if you can understand.</p>
<p>Well i better get going am off to bed now having trouble breathing due to the night air so wil be taking my ventolin with me tonight again.</p>
<p>I hope everyone is keeping well and if any of you are sick please get well soon!</p><p>Hugs Michelle take care and i will be on again as soon as i get more energy to type. Just wanted to let you alll know what has been going on incase anyone was worrrying. Thank you Alana for all your sms and yes i promise to rest..</p>
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			<description>Hi all well this weekend has been flat out and i am not well at the moment. I have a chest infection and am on antibiotics now everyone else in the hous eis starting to get sick too now. I am organising a little holiday with a friend soon. We are not sure where we will be going lol lol ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all well this weekend has been flat out and i am not well at the moment. I have a chest infection and am on antibiotics now everyone else in the hous eis starting to get sick too now. I am organising a little holiday with a friend soon. We are not sure where we will be going lol lol but it will be somewhere away from our kids for a weekend lol pmsl........</p>
<p>I have made arrangements but not booked anything as yet until it gets closer to the date we have chosen to leave. This friend of mine has never been away from her kids for more than a night so it is going to be really good for the both of us to go. I had a little chat with a friend in regards to maybe visiting their family when we go away.&nbsp; Sorry everyone but i will let you all know when it gets closer.</p>
<p>Well i have almost finished my course only have one unit to go and am having trouble getting it done hopefully when i feel better i get into it and complete it. I will let you all know when i have completed it and have had my last assessment as this is when i will get my certificate for the course.</p>
<p>I still have a friend staying with me and i am starting to feel the strain at the moment. Yesterday i was so exhausted i went to bed at 2pm and woke at 5pm so i was totally worn out. I then went to bed at 9pm and slept until 7am this morning. The kids have been really off their heads big time so much energy between them all i am exhausted again tonight so this will only be a quick blog for tonight.</p>
<p>Sorry i have not been around much but am thinking of you all each day!</p>
<p>Have a great week</p>
<p>Hugs Michelle and Family xxx ooo</p>]]></content:encoded>
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Hi all well sorry i have not been on for a while there has been so much going on in my house it is not funny anymore.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&nbsp;</p><p>Hi all well sorry i have not been on for a while there has been so much going on in my house it is not funny anymore.</p>
<p>At the moment i have a friend staying with me and she does not seem to be doing anything to get a house of her own she has two young sons and has given custody of them to their father as she has no where to live and has been mentally and physcological unstable. I know i have my own demons to deal with but now i have hers as well. I am going to get her of her lttle ass and do something about getting a place to live permanenmtly as it is really starting to drive me crazy. Dont get me wrong she does help out at times but seems to really be enjoying not having her childrena dn has been partying the last few weeks talking pills and getting drunk at every chance she can. I put a stop to it since she has been here but she sleeps till usually about 11am and i cannot handle that. I am u lately at like 5.30am 6 am depending when my eyes open lol. I have been stressed out and i realised tonight theat i have been under talking one of my meds that is how stuffed up my head is roight now ummmm maaaaa. Yes i know it is bad but i have just been so stressed but tonight i have taken the correct dosages of my meds i am trying to be good as possible.</p>
<p>Well yesterday Caydn had to go and see his peadiatrician for his checkup. She was pretty happy with him and he is doing ok. Well in a way i guess he is. He was in one of his moods yesterday from the time he woke up so i knew i was really in for it from 7am. The peadiatrician tried to have a conversation with him to see if he made eye contact at all and you guessed it he never once made eye to eye contact with her the whole time she was chatting to him. She asked him if he had friends at kinder and he said no, She asked him why and he said :cos i do not want any!&quot; I was shocked by hois answer. He does keep to himself most of the time at kinder usually enjoying solitary play. Other children can be near him when he is playing but he will not interact with them in no way at all. Caydn is now on the 50th percentile in height but only on the 25th percentile for weight so he is still low for his age which he has b eeen for most of his life nothing new to me. He did at one stage start to go above this but has now dropped back again. He does eat at most meal times so it is not a lack of food. The peadiatrician had ordered blood tests which i took him to have today. He was really good while having it done and he got to have a woody bandaid on it he thought that was cool as lol lol. She is checking his iron levels, and heaps of other things she is also testing for fragile-x syndrome she said she does not want to miss anything and to make sure she has covered every possible avenue with him and to ensure he gets all the help he needs or will need in his life especially when he starts school next year.</p>
<p>After seeing the pead yesterday i had to drop Caydn at kinder as he was to be seen by the field worker that organised his aide for the last two terms. I dropped him off and came home to do a few things as i needed to be back at the kinder by 12 to pick him up and have a meeting to see if we would still need the aide the next two terms. I got there and the field worker was chattingt to me telling me that she was thinking about stopping the aide for the rest of the year until she SAW the True Caydn lol lol he was being very defient and notlistening to what he was told to do. He had been hiding under tables so as to not be a part of the group at all. I am happy that she saw the true Caydn as before this they had never seen him in top gear even though i told them exactly what he was really like. Hooray for Caydn lol lol!</p>
<p>I am not well at the moment and have a chest infection so have to take antibiotics for this ontop of all my normal meds i will be rattling like a bay rattle soon i think. Jaya has a chest infection also and i think Caydn is getting his asthma too, so it must be going a round somewhere. Today i picked Caydn up from kinder and yes he was being very naughty he was not listening or doing as he was told, Caydn had been tot he toilet but did not flush it or wash his hands so they were trying to get him to do these two things before he came home which is fair enough i told them. So they asked him to do it while i was there and he ran, the kinder aide told him to walk as running was not allowed inside which he knows too well. I told her to make him go back to the mat and do it again but this time walk. The aide did do this but he still tried to jump back to the mat so she sent him back to the toilets to do it correctly. Finally after 5 minutes of this he walked to the mat but would not sit down so i told him he could not come home until he had done exactly what was asked of him. He finaly sat down and then they told him he could go. I asked them if he had been like this the whole session to which they told me he had gggggrrrrrrrr. He had been under tables refusing to come out, he ripped his jeans as there was a little hole in them he made it extremely big right from the knee to the ankle he got into trouble for this as he did it on purpose they told me. He sat on the mat at one stage and just ripped it.</p>
<p>Well i am off for the night i hope everyone has a great week and weekend and please take care.</p><p>Thinking of all my friends every day!</p>
<p>Hugs Michelle xxx ooo</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>I AM STILL AROUND AND DOING OK</title>
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			<description>Hi all well sorry not been on here much of late will explain later. There has been so much hapening here not with me but a friend. I am always thinking of you all and hope you are all going well. I love my new van and yes Alana i will be taki9mg pic for you today so you can ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all well sorry not been on here much of late will explain later. There has been so much hapening here not with me but a friend. I am always thinking of you all and hope you are all going well. I love my new van and yes Alana i will be taki9mg pic for you today so you can see it lol lol pmsl i will also take pics of puppy as he has grown so much it not funy. He is eating and drinking on his own now so have put mum outside again, she has been so noisy at nioght it sounds like she is getting killed or something but she wil get over it.</p>
<p>Well just a quick blog for now i will try to gewt on tonight and lwt you all know how things are in detail.</p>
<p>Have a great day and hope each and every one of you have a great day.</p>
<p>Hugs Michelle xxx ooo</p>]]></content:encoded>
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			<title>HEY ALL AN EXCITING WEEK SO FAR! YAY FOR ME</title>
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			<description>Hi all well i have a really good week. I finally got myslef a decent van to get the kids around in yay. I feel so good about it already i think my old one was actually making me feel like crap in the end spending so much money on it and getting nothing out of it. So i went ...</description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Hi all well i have a really good week. I finally got myslef a decent van to get the kids around in yay. I feel so good about it already i think my old one was actually making me feel like crap in the end spending so much money on it and getting nothing out of it. So i went to the car yard on saturday and looked at the cars they had and placed a holding deposit on the van. My family day carer lent me 1200 and my ex lent me 700 for the deposit so was great to get a helping hand from them both i really appreciate their help. So i went back to the car yard on Monday&nbsp; to pay the deposit and do all the paper work needed. The van had to go in for a rewrite of the r.w.c. and they dropped it when they were bringing it down of the hoist and they cracked the windscreen so i had to wait until yesterday to get it and drive it i was very excited. Dont worry Alana i will put a pick up for you tomorrow night so you can get jealous lol lol pmsl. I hope you enjoyed the phone call you received from my mobile today from Jaya too lol lokl she is getting too clever with my phone cheeky little thing. Well anyway i got my van yesterday and it feels like a limo to me compared to my old one. The kidss were so excited when i pulled up in the drive way last night with it they all go : Mum that is a cool car: lol lol They could not wait for this morning for me to drop them at school and kinder it was like we never had a car in our lives lol lol.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Bj went for his learners today and passed i am so proud of him he did it all on his own he got 78% he was excited to. I had to get a friend to take him as i had to take Tiffany for an x-ray on her mouth as i took her to the dentist yesterday and they were concerned as one of her baby eye teeth has not yet come out but the other one has. So they needed an x-ray to see if the adult one was under the gum somewhere as they could not see or feel it at all. So she has to go back next Monday afternoon and take the x-rays with us then they will let me know what is going on.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Today i was running here and there i am so tired too but now i have got a second wind. I have my neighbours two children staying tonight as they have to go to Mildura early in the morning so they are staying here and then they go home in the morning and get ready for school. Thank god for that lol lol</strong></p>
<p><strong>Kristy has to come down tomorrow too as some idiot she went out with years ago and his g/f and another of his friends have gotten restraining orders on her and if she does not come down they will put a warrant out for her arrest. It sucks big time she is stressing out and i told her not to worry too much as they will get thrown out cos all they have said is nothing but lies, that is all they know but one of them has never ever met Kristy before so work that out. Barry her fiancee is coming with her they are driving down so should be here sometime in the afternoon. I get to see Skye again anyway yayayay.</strong></p>
<p><strong>I have my friend here and we are just chatting about everything and anything. I hope you are all having a great night and i will blog tomorrow night and put a pic of my van up especially for Alana lol lol yes i know i am being cheeky now but ya love me for it lol pmsl.</strong></p>
<p><strong>Well better get going and i oromise to blog tomorrow night about my day.</strong></p><p><strong>Take care and hugs to you all</strong></p>
<p><strong>Michelle </strong></p>
<p><strong>xxxooo</strong></p>]]></content:encoded>
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