kobesmummy's Minti Blog http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/ kobesmummy's Minti Blog Copyright 2008 Minti en-uk where do i start kobesmummy hi everyone, well, its easter, wasnt it only christmas last week? feels like it ive been so flat out at work, have had 2 promotions at work in the last 3mths, gone from general packer, to leading hand and now team leader of the whole pasta production line! im so proud of myself! Kobe was 3 in feb, and is growing up ... hi everyone, well, its easter, wasnt it only christmas last week? feels like it

ive been so flat out at work, have had 2 promotions at work in the last 3mths, gone from general packer, to leading hand and now team leader of the whole pasta production line! im so proud of myself!

Kobe was 3 in feb, and is growing up far to quickly!!!! no plans as yet for another one, but would like to in the next 2 years.

my best friend is getting married in october, and im a brides maid, i CANT WAIT, so after that,maybe plan another bubba, if i have my way hahahah

well,kobe calls so i best be off, i will try get online more often

MWUAH

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/661549/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/661549/ Tue, 25 Mar 2008 00:44:19 -0700 long time no visit kobesmummy hi all, its been a few months since ive been online. i have been extremely busy. working hard and not getting paid enough hahah xmas was great, just a small one with us and darrens brother. the in-laws were away this xmas, and my family being indarwin, it was a quiet one, but lovely i just dont get time anymore to do ... hi all, its been a few months since ive been online. i have been extremely busy. working hard and not getting paid enough hahah

xmas was great, just a small one with us and darrens brother. the in-laws were away this xmas, and my family being indarwin, it was a quiet one, but lovely

i just dont get time anymore to do what i want to do. not enough hours in the day! Kobe is growing so much, i cant believehe will be 3 in feb! i cant believe i'll be 28 in jan AARRRGGGHHHH, geting closer and closer to 30!

i will try get online more often, but cant promise anything, stay safe and enjoy the new year

jade

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/590495/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/590495/ Wed, 26 Dec 2007 21:27:55 -0800 howdy kobesmummy hi everyone.well its been over a week since my op and imfeeling pretty good. i have my ups and downs.some days are worse then others,but i just look at kobe and know i did the right thing. i just thought id give you all a quick update.KObe is calling for his "bapf" ( bath) i better run Jade hi everyone.well its been over a week since my op and imfeeling pretty good. i have my ups and downs.some days are worse then others,but i just look at kobe and know i did the right thing.

i just thought id give you all a quick update.KObe is calling for his "bapf" ( bath)

i better run

Jade

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/492455/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/492455/ Tue, 04 Sep 2007 01:19:48 -0700 hi kobesmummy well, its been quite a while since i have written a blog.i have been extremely busy with work. i dont get on as often as i would like. i have had a few personal dramas as well. I found out 2 weeks ago i was pregnant. This has been a bad thing.i am on the pill to prevent falling pregnant, as ... well, its been quite a while since i have written a blog.i have been extremely busy with work. i dont get on as often as i would like.

i have had a few personal dramas as well. I found out 2 weeks ago i was pregnant. This has been a bad thing.i am on the pill to prevent falling pregnant, as just going fulltime with work, i cant afford it.

I was admitted to hospital on thursday with severe bleeding. i didnt miscarry,but the bleeding hasnt stopped.it gets worse, then lightens,then gets heavy again.

I have chosen to get an abortion. Besides the fact that we cant afford this baby, the doctor has suggested it for my own safety and well being. So, if i dont miscarry between now and friday, iam getting a termination.I am booked in for friday morning at the royal womens.

Please dont think i have made this decision lightly. there have been many tears, tantrums and mental anguish between myself and my partner. But we feel it is the best decision for us to make at this time in our lives.

I have asked for annonymous advice here on minti, where i have had overwhelming support. Thankyou to all those people, even if you didnt know it was me. When the time comes later down the track i am going to write an article to help others.no one should have to go thru a decision like this without the help and support they need.

Abortion is a HUGE thing, although a relatively common procedure these days. its still something that NEEDS to be talked about. I dont like to support abortion as a contraceptive.but for people who have the need for this operation in the safety of your own health,or people who know they will not be able to give the child the life they deserve. Who have protected themselves with contraception, but find themselves in my very predicament.

Im not sure if all this makes sense.i cant really think clearly or type clearly at the moment. Imjust gonna take it easy, and i will write when its allover

thanks for listening

Jade

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/475283/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/475283/ Sat, 18 Aug 2007 18:47:02 -0700 well, what a month kobesmummy hi all! sorry i havnt written,but have been extremely busy. im working prettymuch full time hours, on a casual wage,so  reasonably good money, but no holiday pay. but its allgood just thought i would  update you a bit.besides working, havnt been doing too  much! just spending time withmy  family! Kobe is learning moireand more words. the latest phrase is LULOOOO, which ... hi all! sorry i havnt written,but have been extremely busy. im working prettymuch full time hours, on a casual wage,so  reasonably good money, but no holiday pay. but its allgood

just thought i would  update you a bit.besides working, havnt been doing too  much! just spending time withmy  family! Kobe is learning moireand more words. the latest phrase is LULOOOO, which is love you.its so cute!

well, as i said not much is going on, work is extremely busy, getting lots of hours which is great, im starting to learn how the machines work and how to operate them.its great! anywaykobe is chucking a hissy fit,so i better go

talk soon jade

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/419171/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/419171/ Sun, 17 Jun 2007 01:48:14 -0700 what a week kobesmummy WELL, I HAVE JUST FIISHED. and what a week it has been. i worked 2-10pm all week, and it was flat out busy! im so exhausted but so proud of myself. it was my first week at work after being a stay at home mum. Darren is now the stay at home dad and im the working mum. its very ... WELL, I HAVE JUST FIISHED. and what a week it has been. i worked 2-10pm all week, and it was flat out busy! im so exhausted but so proud of myself. it was my first week at work after being a stay at home mum. Darren is now the stay at home dad and im the working mum. its very hard having to leave kobe every day, but my partner needs a change, and i must admit, i LOVE the adult company. its hard work, and coming home to a bomn of a mess each night is hard, but im sure we will get into a routine eventually!

well im off to bed. need to rest, as we have play gym tomorrow. and im really looking forward to spending the weekend with dazz and kobe, ( and geordy too, my old puppy dog heheheh)

jade

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/392910/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/392910/ Fri, 18 May 2007 06:20:53 -0700 first day back at work kobesmummy well i FINALLY got some work, its just casual, packing food into boxes, but its good money and ive got a few hours. today was my first full day and i LOVED IT. it was extremely busy and hard work, but it was great! just absolutely exhausted now hahahha anyway, we are going out for dinner, so just thought id type ... well i FINALLY got some work, its just casual, packing food into boxes, but its good money and ive got a few hours. today was my first full day and i LOVED IT. it was extremely busy and hard work, but it was great! just absolutely exhausted now hahahha

anyway, we are going out for dinner, so just thought id type a quick update

jade

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/386524/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/386524/ Fri, 11 May 2007 01:05:06 -0700 sad kobesmummy hi everyone. this is just gonna be me venting. im so annoyed, stressed and upset dazz just cant be bothered looking for work. its really tearing me up. im applying for ervything under the sun, and he just cant be bothered. im getting to the point where i have gone back onto my depression tablets ( which i really didnt want to ... hi everyone.

this is just gonna be me venting. im so annoyed, stressed and upset

dazz just cant be bothered looking for work. its really tearing me up. im applying for ervything under the sun, and he just cant be bothered. im getting to the point where i have gone back onto my depression tablets ( which i really didnt want to do) but i just dont know what to do

each time i try talk to dazz, he just yells at me " leave me alone, i'll do it my way" is all i hear. and his way is NO way, well thats what it seems like.

i just dont know what to do anymore. we are falling behind on rent and bills,and $400 a fortnight from centrelink just doesnt cut it! it just doesnt go far enough. we are really behind the 8ball, and although he says " i know i know" he just doesnt seem to want to do anything about it GGRRRRRR

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/381742/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/381742/ Fri, 04 May 2007 22:23:26 -0700 the 1st of may kobesmummy well, its the 1st of may ALREADY. how quick time is moving! i havnt heard anything about the job, and have applied for a dozen more! it seems that no one wants to help a mum get back into work. its starting to get me down a bit, becuase we are really struggling and dazz has lost motivation to return to ... well, its the 1st of may ALREADY. how quick time is moving!

i havnt heard anything about the job, and have applied for a dozen more! it seems that no one wants to help a mum get back into work. its starting to get me down a bit, becuase we are really struggling and dazz has lost motivation to return to work! WHAT DO I DO????

any suggestions would be great!

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/378875/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/378875/ Tue, 01 May 2007 01:15:26 -0700 job interview kobesmummy well i had a job interview yesterday. its working in a fruit shop, there were 4 positions- 3 part timew and one full time. the full time was like a 2ic. the lady, jeniffer was very impressed with my resume. As i have had previous management positions, she wanted to put me thru for the 2ic. i even met the ... well i had a job interview yesterday. its working in a fruit shop, there were 4 positions- 3 part timew and one full time. the full time was like a 2ic. the lady, jeniffer was very impressed with my resume. As i have had previous management positions, she wanted to put me thru for the 2ic. i even met the actual owner/manager of the store, so im hoping thats a good thing! I said i was able to start immediately. so FINGERS crossed.

PLEASE- to the god of jobs- LET ME have just a little bit of luck!!!

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/371864/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/371864/ Sun, 22 Apr 2007 02:48:34 -0700 hmmm kobesmummy hi everyone. well, dazz and i have talked and have decided to both apply for full time jobs and who ever gets one first, goes to work. i think it will be good for me to go back to work, after all being a stay at home mum for 2 years has been hard work, so a bit of change cant ... hi everyone. well, dazz and i have talked and have decided to both apply for full time jobs and who ever gets one first, goes to work.

i think it will be good for me to go back to work, after all being a stay at home mum for 2 years has been hard work, so a bit of change cant hurt, right?

my only concern is that i dunno if dazz would be able to handle Kobe full time! i admit he is good with him most the time, but when it comes to tantrums, nappies and vomit, he runs the opposite direction.

i suppose i will just have to try put my fears aside and give it ago! any advice would be appreciated!!

jade

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/371099/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/371099/ Sat, 21 Apr 2007 01:39:19 -0700 here we go again kobesmummy hi everyone. you know the term, "when it rains, it pours"? well, we are drowning! darren got fired today and i just cannot see the light at the end of the tunnel anymore. why is it that things just get harder, as they start to lookk up. i just dont know what to do anymore. should i try become the bread winner? ... hi everyone. you know the term, "when it rains, it pours"? well, we are drowning! darren got fired today and i just cannot see the light at the end of the tunnel anymore.

why is it that things just get harder, as they start to lookk up. i just dont know what to do anymore.

should i try become the bread winner? would dazz be able to handle kobe all day every day? WHAT DO I DO!

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/368797/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/368797/ Wed, 18 Apr 2007 05:44:59 -0700 home sweet home kobesmummy hi guys. well we are in and settled. its so nice to have our own place again. Kobe thought it was christmas when he got all his toys out of storage! all these "new" toys he had forgotten about. it was so great to see hi guys. well we are in and settled. its so nice to have our own place again. Kobe thought it was christmas when he got all his toys out of storage! all these "new" toys he had forgotten about. it was so great to see

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/364423/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/364423/ Thu, 12 Apr 2007 19:31:46 -0700 our own house! kobesmummy hi guys, well we finally found a rental property and we are moving in this weekend! have been extremely busy trying to organise everything. we are so excited to have our own space again Kobe is driving me nuts. we have hit the TERRIBLE 2's for sure! we have all been sick with a cold, which kobe generously shared with the ... hi guys, well we finally found a rental property and we are moving in this weekend! have been extremely busy trying to organise everything. we are so excited to have our own space again

Kobe is driving me nuts. we have hit the TERRIBLE 2's for sure! we have all been sick with a cold, which kobe generously shared with the whole family! how nice of him lol.

we are all on the road to recovery finally!

well, sounds like he's gone down for his nap, so im gonna do the same. i will be online properly in about a weeks time, so i will be online more often

take care

love jade

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/352661/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/352661/ Wed, 28 Mar 2007 16:32:42 -0700 HIIIIIIIIIIIIIII kobesmummy hi everyone, just letting you know i am still alive and well. just havnt had much time to get online lately. we are trying to find a house to live at the moment, so very busy. i will contact you all once im online properly love and hugs to you all Jade and kobe xoxoxoxoxo hi everyone, just letting you know i am still alive and well. just havnt had much time to get online lately. we are trying to find a house to live at the moment, so very busy. i will contact you all once im online properly

love and hugs to you all

Jade and kobe xoxoxoxoxo

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/345375/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/345375/ Mon, 19 Mar 2007 14:21:33 -0700 going to see RAGGS kobesmummy hi everyone. its so hard for me to get online at the moment. having 4 adults in one house with only one computer! anyway Grandma and i are taking Kobe to see RAGGS tomorrow. should be so much fun. i hope everyone is well love jade hi everyone. its so hard for me to get online at the moment. having 4 adults in one house with only one computer!

anyway Grandma and i are taking Kobe to see RAGGS tomorrow. should be so much fun.

i hope everyone is well

love jade

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/200004/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/200004/ Fri, 23 Feb 2007 00:47:41 -0800 Happy Birthday KOBE kobesmummy Happy 2ND birthday to my baby boy KOBE Happy 2ND birthday to my baby boy KOBE]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/199982/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/199982/ Thu, 15 Feb 2007 13:32:10 -0800 cries noooooooo kobesmummy hi guys i wont be online for a while, i have to get 2 teeth out tomorrow, one being a wisdom tooth that has fallen apart. im SO TERRIFIED of dentists. so im not looking forward to it, but it has to be done. so i will see you all when i get back online- wish me luck jade hi guys i wont be online for a while, i have to get 2 teeth out tomorrow, one being a wisdom tooth that has fallen apart. im SO TERRIFIED of dentists. so im not looking forward to it, but it has to be done. so i will see you all when i get back online- wish me luck

jade

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/199997/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/199997/ Mon, 05 Feb 2007 22:31:39 -0800 thats FUNtastic! kobesmummy hi everyone. today we got some GRETA news. Darren went ofr a job interview this morning and HE GOT IT! its full time, mainly forklift driving. working in the warehouse for FUNtastic ( hence the title of my blog!) he is so excited, im so glad to see him motivated. it has been a bad couple of months for us, and ... hi everyone. today we got some GRETA news. Darren went ofr a job interview this morning and HE GOT IT!

its full time, mainly forklift driving. working in the warehouse for FUNtastic ( hence the title of my blog!) he is so excited, im so glad to see him motivated. it has been a bad couple of months for us, and im so happy to see things finally turning around TOUCH WOOD.

Ive also decided to study Medical reception. I worked in hospitality before i had Kobe, and its not just what i want to do for the rest of my life. so im very excited about a new career path!

Anyway, i must go, i will write more later

love jade

]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/199990/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/199990/ Thu, 01 Feb 2007 16:19:47 -0800 the end of the month kobesmummy i cant believe its nearly the end of january already! its so scarey, i think each year gets quicker as you get older!! 2 week untill kobe is 2!!! i just have no idea what to get him. he has billions of toys and clothes. and being at the in-laws its hard to buy something for him and knowing we dont ... 2 week untill kobe is 2!!! i just have no idea what to get him. he has billions of toys and clothes. and being at the in-laws its hard to buy something for him and knowing we dont have any room for it! any ideas???
well, today was freezing, we are supposed to be in summer and ive been in tracky pants and a jumper all day!, then in a few days we are supposed to get up to 38degrees! typical melbourne weather!
anyway, gotta go, just thought id touch base
take care
jade]]> http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/199985/ http://www.minti.com/members/kobesmummy/blog/199985/ Sat, 27 Jan 2007 01:12:02 -0800