Minti - Recent Comments on Question "need advice " http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-/ Minti - Recent Comments on Question "need advice " Copyright 2009 Minti en-uk need advice samantha mother in laws can be very difficult thats for sure, i do not have one as my husbands mother died when he was 6, but i have a mother and a sister in law lol,  and my mum dosn't like her much at all, the thing is you've gotto find some common ground with them, find out what they are ... http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379848 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379848 Wed, 02 May 2007 06:32:17 -0700 need advice franni has she lost any children in her life that were babies? my mums a bit if and ry around kids because she lost 2 of her own and she dosent want to get 2 close to the kids just in case somethink happens again. http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379755 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379755 Wed, 02 May 2007 04:19:45 -0700 need advice Deborahsc2203 It took my so called mother in law to want to see her grandson afterhe was over a year old ,, but at times i wish she hadnt met him cause now shes finding faults with things that i do with him ,,, (now its her granson ) to see the child is too except the realionship that you are ... It took my so called mother in law to want to see her grandson afterhe was over a year old ,, but at times i wish she hadnt met him cause now shes finding faults with things that i do with him ,,, (now its her granson ) to see the child is too except the realionship that you are in with her son ,, ( been there and still going thought it now )

  you cant win ,, enjoy the peace while you can ,she will come arround when shes ready ,, its her loss ,, not the loss of your child as your child already has people that love it xxxxxxxxxxxx

]]> http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379745 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379745 Wed, 02 May 2007 04:09:29 -0700 need advice johnmorr Sorry, don't know what happened. But as I was saying, being someone who has never known my dad, I can tell you that establishing relationships as deep into the family tree as possible is a good thing for all involved. http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379714 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379714 Wed, 02 May 2007 03:05:17 -0700 need advice johnmorr For the most part, I agree with what everyone's saying. If your mother-in-law chooses to reject her grandchild, for whatever reason, that's on her. Maybe something you can present to her is the need of her grandchild to have a relationship with her. Be http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379705 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379705 Wed, 02 May 2007 03:02:41 -0700 need advice jimannakateen Hey honey i agree with everyone else! I would'nt  worry about her, as long as you and your family and friend love your little bundle of joy that is all that matters. Your little bundle doesnt need  negative vibes. Love is what makes us moveon with life and be who we are and we all want that for our kids. Good ... Hey honey i agree with everyone else! I would'nt  worry about her, as long as you and your family and friend love your little bundle of joy that is all that matters. Your little bundle doesnt need  negative vibes. Love is what makes us moveon with life and be who we are and we all want that for our kids.

Good luck honey

Tee

]]> http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379556 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379556 Tue, 01 May 2007 21:59:58 -0700 need advice Frontier Sounds like she wouldn't be a good example of a grand parent. perhaps she will get less visits from you as well. perhaps she will get less visits from you as well. ]]> http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379534 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379534 Tue, 01 May 2007 21:38:25 -0700 need advice cheekymonkey When a relationship is forced upon someone, it is never a real relationship. Save yourself some heartache and enjoy what you have. Maybe one day she will realise what she has missed. Kids don't need to have conflict in thier relationships. http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379525 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379525 Tue, 01 May 2007 21:19:48 -0700 need advice RebeccaDorant if she has no reason for it then i agree with merle... don't waste your time... people like that only give toxicity to a relationship it's ok not to get along with your mother in law and it's ok for your son not to see her... my partners father has never met our kids or me and never wants to, ... http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379515 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379515 Tue, 01 May 2007 21:13:51 -0700 need advice melilbrad Your probably not going to get anywhere with her you may need your babys daddy to say something. Maybe get him to see if he can find out why she doesnt want anything to do with him then you can go from there. Does she get along with you? http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379507 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379507 Tue, 01 May 2007 21:07:01 -0700 need advice breannababy You can lead a horse (or horses arse)to water but u cannot make him drink.....In essence sweety don't waste your time and effort.You will only be setting your self and little man up for heart ache.Hugs Merle http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379503 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/379490/need-advice-//#379503 Tue, 01 May 2007 21:04:53 -0700