http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/421931/step-children-/ Minti - Recent Comments on Question "step children " Copyright 2009 Minti en-uk jstanothermom My husband and i went through this with his ex and after filling papers and going to court she still did it but only when she was mad and i know this sound horrible and scary for the childeren but take the visitation papers to your local or if in a different town to her local police station or sherriffs ... http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/421931/step-children-//#422259 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/421931/step-children-//#422259 Wed, 20 Jun 2007 09:38:05 -0700 cheleinkal I don't know what country you're in, but in Australia I'm pretty sure this is still the way it goes.  You pay maintenance to the prime provider (who has the most custody of the kids) and this maintenance also entitles you to a certain amount of days per year you are allowed to have access to the children and this ... http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/421931/step-children-//#421954 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/421931/step-children-//#421954 Wed, 20 Jun 2007 01:58:53 -0700 crystalmoon Hey there been there done that .....it is terrible isnt it? look go to court again make sure all access etc is to your satisfaction.Leave no stone unturned, then when your terms are not met slap a breach of court orders on them.This is all you can do really other than keep sending stuff etc.This situation is never easy or ... http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/421931/step-children-//#421935 http://www.minti.com/questions-and-answers/discussion/421931/step-children-//#421935 Wed, 20 Jun 2007 01:40:22 -0700