Kids cannot control it. So giving stickers, rewards etc won't likely help.

I get my daughter up most nights before I go to bed, but often she's already wet the bed by the time I get there. Or she will later in the night despite my efforts.

My daughter is a heavy sleeper. By the time she lets herself fall asleep she's so tired nothing will wake her up. She sometimes gets up and wanders to the living room becuase she needs the bathroom but is completly unaware of what is going on. In the morning I will ask her about getting up and she will have no memory of getting up.

The alarm might work to teach her to get up on her own and use the toilet. I may try that as I too am sometimes experated by having to change the sheets frequently.

Other advice is see your doctor. They will check the child for infection. but I wouldn't give my child any of the medications as they are only for symptoms and don't teach the child how to stay dry at night/get up and use the bathroom and that is the long term answer.

Do not use dry nights as they make it worse. this is from my specialist. If your child is over 6 then see your gp and get refered to a peadi and see a urologist. get the mat, or get the alarm from the chemist or ebay. my pref is the mat as it will not come undo. My son is Autistic and he was dry in 3 weeks. we have just had his 14th night of dry nights,

Also read my advice on it  http://www.minti.com/parenting-advice/9446/Bed-wetting-and-ways-to-cope-Things-NOT-to-do/

it basicly goes into what we have had to do.

hi there,

 try not giving her a drink an hour or an hour and a half before she goes to bed and make sure she goes to the toilet before bed, try leaving a small light on in the toilet incase she wakes threw the night she can just get up and go, i did this and it works.

all the best

I had a sister that still wet the bed at times when she was 15, some children do have week bladders, if you are realy concerned I would suggest a chat with your local Dr.

Lee x

Please know that this is just one situation your daughter may be completely different just thought I'd write in what worked for my brother! Good Luck!!!

Have you tried setting an alarm clock for every 3 hours or so, so that way she gets used to waking up to go to the toilet? I know it may be a real hassle for you to get up every few hours, but hopefully after a week or two of it, your daughter will wake on her own and go to the toilet on her own at night....

Also I find either cutting out all drinks after dinner or get your child up to go to the toilet just as your going to bed.

Hope these can help good luck